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Asking Patients the Right Questions
When was the last time you asked a patient a question? Maybe 30 seconds ago? But, are you asking the right questions to elicit valuable and useful information? As a healthcare provider, you've likely spent hundreds of hours learning to ask the right questions to gather critical health information from your patients.
An Alarming Lack of Accountability
Accountability seems to be a lost quality today. The simple act of taking responsibility and doing the right thing just doesn't happen as often as it should. Maybe it is the litigious nature of our society.
Designing a Fitness Plan (Part 4): Blending Pain Relief With Healthy Aging
Pain relief is still the No. 1 reason patients come to my office. However, most of my patients have other goals as well, such as: "I want to lose 10 to 20 pounds"; "I feel old and want to slow down the aging process"; "My doctor says I am becoming a diabetic and need to exercise"; or "I'm tired and want more energy."
NCCAOM Launches New Membership Organization
The National Certification Commission for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine (NCCAOM) recently launched a new national membership organization, the NCCAOM Academy of Diplomates.
An Interview with Amanda Shayle
JW: Can you share with us some of your history and how you became an acupuncturist? What did you do prior to becoming an acupuncturist? Where did you go to school?
Misconceptions & Opportunities With Medicare
As I speak around the country on how to properly document Medicare patient encounters, I get questions regarding opting out of Medicare. There are many misconceptions about opting out of Medicare, including just what it means to opt out.
How Many of Your Patients Have Sarcopenia?
Figure 1 demonstrates the typical appearance of sarcopenia in the paravertebral muscles. Have you considered evaluating your patients for this problem? Sarcopenia is the progressive loss of skeletal muscle mass and function that affects the older population.
The Art of Listening
One of the most important clinical concepts for me was voiced by the legendary physician William Osler. "Listen to your patient, he/she is telling you the diagnosis." After treating literally thousands of patients, it can become almost second nature to quickly discover clues which reveal the underlying diagnosis.
News in Brief
Northwestern Student Honored for Addressing Concussions Head-On; Northwestern Announces New CFO; Life U. to Provide Unique Opportunity.
Let's Streamline Your Front Desk
Your front office can be your greatest source of efficiency or a constant bottleneck. Increasing the productivity of this area without sacrificing the quality of patient interaction can be a little tricky.
Excited to Share the Science of Chiropractic: An Interview With Dr. Heidi Haavik
Dr. Heidi Haavik has become known in the circle of chiropractic researchers as not only a rising star, but also one willing to do research that can have a major impact in the scientific world and how chiropractic is perceived.
The Rest of the Patient Story
I've written previously about allowing a patient to tell you their story – about taking the time to listen and engage all the aspects of their case history, the injury in question, and the related issues.
F4CP Launches New Social Media Campaign
The Foundation for Chiropractic Progress has launched a new service to help member doctors: a social media campaign called "Accelerator."
Health and Wellness Partnership
Yo San University of Traditional Chinese Medicine and The Wellness Center at the LAC + USC Historic General Hospital recently joined forces to extend care to the residents of Boyle Heights area of Los Angeles.
Filling the Gap: The Role of Alternative Practitioners in a Broken Health Care System
I have been asked many times what got me into alternative medicine. My answer is simple: I want to truly help and make a difference in people's health.
Transparency is Key at ASA First Annual Meeting
On March 4th and 5th the American Society of Acupuncturists (ASA) held a successful first annual meeting in Albuquerque, New Mexico.
The Value of Melatonin in Breast Cancer Prevention and Adjunctive Treatment
Although melatonin (MLT) is best known for its sleep-aid properties and as a natural remedy to prevent jet lag, extensive experimental studies suggest it possesses anticancer activity through several biological mechanisms.
Specialized Pro-Resolving Mediators: 21st Century Inflammation Fighters
Specialized pro-resolving mediators, or SPMs, are a portion of the omega-3 fatty-acid spectrum that have been shown to have a powerful effect on reducing inflammation.
Constructing Our Reality: The Primary Channels and Perception, Part 1
My favorite topic of discussion within Chinese medicine is the acupuncture channel systems. First of all, each of us have them. They are part of our bodies; not something external to us. To learn about the acupuncture channels is to learn about ourselves.
Energy: For Life and For Death
Energy is a deep topic in Traditional Chinese Medicine. Qi is understood to underlie all of existence, animated or not, and the qi of the living is studied with special attention.
Day in the Life of an Advanced-Practice DC
Can you tell us a little about your background in the profession? Why did you want to become a DC? I studied at Boston University from 1968-1972 as a pre-med student majoring in biology.
Building Relationships and Referral Networks with Allopathic Practitioners
Dr. Doug, an orthopedist of 20 years, had heard stories from patients who tried acupuncture. While he was able to address many of their complaints effectively, some appeared to gain additional benefit when their care included TCM.
Roots in the Community, Branches Far Beyond
The Jung Tao School of Classical Chinese Medicine (JTS) was founded in 1998 by Sean Christian Marshall in Sugar Grove, North Carolina, a small community near Boone in the state's westernmost mountains.
August, 2014, Vol. 14, Issue 08
Avoiding Wasted Healing: The Cure for Visibility PTSD
By Sharon Desjarlais, CC and Michele McGrew
Jack is a soft-spoken spiritual teacher who helps people heal their hearts through acts of selfless compassion. An author and owner of a metaphysical bookstore, he's interviewed some of the leading healers and teachers of our time.Yet as much as he longs to, there's one big thing stopping him from sharing his own wisdom with a wider audience. "I have a fear of being seen," he says.
Jack's struggling with a condition so common among therapists, we've named it Visibility PTSD. After coaching countless healers over the years, we believe it's the single biggest block that stands in the way of attracting clients, making money and fulfilling your highest spiritual calling.
Why is this so prominent among healers? Chances are, when you were a child, you weren't exactly celebrated for being different. Add to that the baggage you've brought with you as a healer who may have been persecuted in a past life (oh yeah, we're going there) and we can understand your compulsion to stay hidden from the public bulls-eye.
Yet sadly, if you continue to keep yourself a secret, people can't find you — or become your clients. That's what we call wasted healing. And all those people who don't get your help ultimately pay the price.
Here's the good news. Your business will always show you what's ready to be healed. And we've spent eight years developing and testing a healing technique to help with that: Elegant Alchemy. It's a simple yet powerful spiritual technology that dissolves the hidden blocks that are stopping you from being willing to be seen — so you can get your therapy out to a lot more deserving clients.
Next time you feel yourself cringe at the thought of getting out there and being seen, use our Elegant Alchemy healing technique to dissolve your Visibility PTSD. Start by journaling your answer to this question: "If the fear of being seen was no longer important to me, what are the first three steps I'd take to grow my practice?"
Be sure to ask the question exactly the way you see it: "If the fear of being seen was no longer important to me..." We're usually so eager to feel fearless that we can slip into saying, "If I was no longer afraid of being seen..." But that thought can hold you back even more when you don't feel fearless. Rather than trying to make the fear go away, simply be willing to allow the fear to no longer be important to you. That's when you're able to "feel the fear...and do it anyway," as the sage advice goes.
Also, when you answer this question, do your best to name specific steps you can take action on. "I'd get out in the world in a big way" is a great idea, but it doesn't lead you to a next step. "I'd create a video of my three favorite yoga poses and put it on my website," is a tangible action step.
After you've journaled your answers to that first question, choose an area in your home or treatment room where you've got plenty of space. Then stand in the center of the room with your feet hip width apart. Keep your knees soft and balance yourself until you feel stable. Then take a few deep, cleansing breaths and relax even more deeply. Now, gently allow yourself to feel the fear of being seen. Give yourself permission to go deep knowing you're completely safe and protected. Notice what that fear looks like to you. What it feels like. What it sounds like. What it smells like. Even what it takes like. Bring all your senses into the experience.
Stop the madness and take a step back. Once you've truly experienced the fear you've been brushing aside for a lifetime or more, silently count to three — and then take one giant step back. Feel yourself subtly disconnect from the pain of the fear you were just feeling. And notice it now in the space in front of you, where you were just standing.
Realize that everything you see is a reflection of something you secretly believe about yourself. As you consider the fear from this slight distance, answer this powerful question: "That fear must mean I am________________________." Be willing to respond, out loud, with the first thought that pops into your head. Don't censor yourself or try to make sense of it. When you get an answer, follow up with this question: "If [what you just answered] is true, that must mean I am _____________________________." Keep asking and answering that question until you get to the core restriction. How will you know? You'll probably break out in a cold sweat. And you may even feel dizzy or light-headed, because your core restriction is the most frightening thing you can imagine. It's your deepest fear.
When I walked Jack through this process, his deepest fear was intense: "It would be good that I would be destroyed," he said in a low voice. Yet as disturbing as that thought was, I could feel the sacred tenderness he was giving himself by saying it out loud.
Ask the wisest, most eternal part of you to help you forgive yourself for making up that belief. As a healer, you're probably well aware that what you experience day-to-day is the tip of the iceberg called YOU. At the same time, the wisest, most eternal part of you exists beyond of the time-space continuum, in the world of spirit and energy. And it's intimately connected to whatever you think of as God, Goddess, Holy Spirit, Universe, Presence or All That Is.
At this point in the Elegant Alchemy process, you're going to call that part of you forward to help you forgive yourself for making up the belief that your deepest fear is true. Because every block we ever perceive is born out of one single belief we mistakenly bought into eons ago: that we are alone and separate from Source. We subconsciously project that belief into our lives as fear, pain and discontent.
Now it's time to let that mistaken belief go. You do that by simply saying out loud: "Dear [your name for God, Goddess, All That Is], please help me forgive myself for making up the belief that ________________________________." Then complete that sentence with the core fear that came up in step 2.
Affirm the Truth — the opposite of your belief. Once you've asked for help to forgive yourself, immediately answer this statement: "I know the Truth:________________________________." Then, without engaging your thinking mind, reach for the most expansive psychological or spiritual truth you're willing to believe in that moment. Your Truth may be: "I know that I am one with Source and I am always protected, every moment of every day." Or it may be as simple as, "I'm a good person and I've got an important message to share." Whatever your Truth is, the most important thing is that it flows from you naturally. And that it feels true to you.
When I was working with Jack, the atmosphere around us changed dramatically when he called on the wisest, most eternal part of him, which he called Presence: "I know the Truth," he said with a fierce strength in his voice. "I am Presence."
Ask to be filled with peace and led to your best next step. Once you've claimed your Truth, look again at the space in front of you. This time, instead of seeing the fear, see your Truth. Again, engage all of your senses to notice what it looks like. What it feels like. What it sounds like. What it smells like. Even what it tastes like. Continuing to address the wisest, most eternal part of you, simply say: "Please fill me with your peace and lead me to my best next step."
Then you're going to pull it all together in a simple prayer that sounds something like this: "Dear Holy Spirit, please help me forgive myself for making up the belief that I ever could be rejected by anyone else. I know the Truth: I have a lot to share and there are people out there who are ready to hear my message. Please fill me with your peace. And lead me to my best next step."
Then, seeing that Truth projected in the space in front of you, take one giant step forward into it. And continue to breathe as your newly discovered Truth begins to reorganize your cellular structure. Jack Immediately noticed in the space in front of him a sense of expansive, grounded spaciousness. As he stepped into it, a deep sense of peace enveloped us.
Today, he's taking action on the steps he chose at the beginning of this process to ground his newfound freedom in reality. He's outlining a new book he's going to promote when he's traveling around the country teaching his unique form of selfless compassion. As I left him, he was relaxed and at ease with a gentle smile on his face. And he was eager to get started with the next phase of his teaching and healing.
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