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Abdominal Acupuncture for Eye Healing: The Sacred Turtle and Ba Gua Map
Our ideas about western medicine have shifted in recent decades, while the public is asking more from health care providers.
Data: The New Frontier in Health Care
Your practice is empowered with the data you need to improve patient health, run a more efficient (read: profitable) practice, get paid in timely fashion and help show the efficacy of chiropractic on the national stage in the midst of sweeping changes in health care!
Making Public Health a Chiropractic Priority
As highlighted in this edition's News in Brief, Rand Baird, DC, MPH, FICA, FICC, editor and occasional author of our long-running column, "Chiropractic in the American Public Health Association", was recognized by the organization recently for 40 years of membership.
A War You Can Help Patients Win
The average American consumes approximately 60 percent of calories from sugar, flour and refined oils. A donut is a good example of a so-called "food" that represents these calorie sources.
The Roots of TCM in Depression Treatment
In traditional Chinese medicine, there is historical precedent for the treatment of so-called "Shen" (Heart-Mind) disorder, or disorder/dysregulation of the spirit, which is also considered as distinct but not separate from the cognitive function of the brain.
Medicine as Metaphor
The practice of medicine is both an art and a science. We study and learn the system so that when the time comes to apply it, there is a greater possibility of successfully helping others.
The Integrative Medicine Puzzle: Putting the Pieces Together
The conversation is changing in the broader healthcare community with patients actually moving the discussion toward more integrative topics. Patients today want to know their options.
Aetna Updates 97140 Policy
In a development the Association of New Jersey Chiropractors is calling "a resounding victory for chiropractors nationwide," Aetna Insurance Company has updated its national reimbursement policy regarding 97140 (manual therapy), reaching an agreement two years after the association filed a declaratory judgment suit in federal court against the insurer.
ICD-10 Is Not Scary (and Not About Billing)
In my 13 years of consulting with doctors on billing and coding matters, ICD-10 has aroused the biggest combination of misguided fear and ignorance I can remember.
Treat Every Patient as an Athlete
Frontal-plane movement pattern dysfunction can set the stage for musculoskeletal injury. Frontal-plane stabilization is essential during the normal activities of daily living: think single-leg stance and gait cycle.
Treating LBP in Golfers: Beyond Basic Assessment
The drive to master the most efficient swing demands a tremendous amount from the lower back. Maintaining stability in a flexed posture, supporting torso rotation and repetitively supporting the golf swing all put the lower back in a vulnerable position.
Melatonin: A Promising Natural Agent in the Prevention of ALS
A number of years ago, experimental studies suggested melatonin could block key steps in the development of Alzheimer's disease, primarily by acting as a brain antioxidant and inhibiting the build-up of beta-amyloid plaque in the brain.
Can Acupuncture Treat Knee Pain?
Recently, an article in the Journal of the American Medical Association concluded that, "neither laser nor needle acupuncture conferred benefit over sham for pain or function" among older chronic knee pain patients.
Technology Meets Practice: Chiropractic Every Day
About a year ago, I had an interesting conversation with a DC who made house calls. When I asked why, she was quick to explain she learns much more about her patients when she sees them at home than she could ever observe in the office.
News in Brief
Support of F4CP Continues With Latest Donations; Walter Reed Honors Dr. William Morgan; Recognizing 40 Years of Public-Health Activism; Allstate Decision Reversed.
Lower-Extremity Overuse Injuries: Primer on Causes and Corrections
From ankle sprains to stress fractures, shin splints to plantar fasciitis, the research is clear: These common overuse injuries of the lower extremities – among dozens of others – may be related to abnormal foot function in your patients.
Adding Microneedling to Your Clinic for Results and Profit
Microneedling has taken the beauty world by storm over the last 10 years. Under the names dermaroller, microneedling or skin needling you will see these treatments listed in the services of nearly every fashionable beauty salon and day spa in the country.
The Art of Creating a Healing Space
I always advise my graduates to examine their group practice or treatment rooms with fresh eyes after they leave my CE workshops. I tell them, "Ask yourselves - is your space qi filled, welcoming and healing? Or is it cold and clinical?"
Merger Creates New Model of Care
Two San Francisco powerhouses of holistic healing, the American College of Traditional Chinese Medicine (ACTCM) and California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS), are merging. Together they are building a visionary approach to applied integral health.
The Source-Luo Point Combination, Part 3
Dr. Nguyen Nghi (NVN) was born in Vietnam and is one of the most important scholars, writers, teachers and practitioners of modern time. Many of his theories and applications are the source of modern teachers from Europe and the United States.
Online Marketing Basics: Google Ranking, Part 1
We all know there is so much opportunity with online marketing. And, let's face it, if you don't have a presence online with a website and social media, you are probably not where you want to be.
Colon Health and TCM
I still remember many years ago, the loud "Yuck" from my wife at the time when we were together watching the Chinese movie "Last Emperor."
Exploring and Learning from the Gift of Life
I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to teach cadaver dissection classes and workshops with Stephen Cina at the New England School of Acupuncture over the past seven years, first through the Sports Medicine Acupuncture Program and later as a NESA elective course.
August, 2014, Vol. 14, Issue 08
Avoiding Wasted Healing: The Cure for Visibility PTSD
By Sharon Desjarlais, CC and Michele McGrew
Jack is a soft-spoken spiritual teacher who helps people heal their hearts through acts of selfless compassion. An author and owner of a metaphysical bookstore, he's interviewed some of the leading healers and teachers of our time.Yet as much as he longs to, there's one big thing stopping him from sharing his own wisdom with a wider audience. "I have a fear of being seen," he says.
Jack's struggling with a condition so common among therapists, we've named it Visibility PTSD. After coaching countless healers over the years, we believe it's the single biggest block that stands in the way of attracting clients, making money and fulfilling your highest spiritual calling.
Why is this so prominent among healers? Chances are, when you were a child, you weren't exactly celebrated for being different. Add to that the baggage you've brought with you as a healer who may have been persecuted in a past life (oh yeah, we're going there) and we can understand your compulsion to stay hidden from the public bulls-eye.
Yet sadly, if you continue to keep yourself a secret, people can't find you — or become your clients. That's what we call wasted healing. And all those people who don't get your help ultimately pay the price.
Here's the good news. Your business will always show you what's ready to be healed. And we've spent eight years developing and testing a healing technique to help with that: Elegant Alchemy. It's a simple yet powerful spiritual technology that dissolves the hidden blocks that are stopping you from being willing to be seen — so you can get your therapy out to a lot more deserving clients.
Next time you feel yourself cringe at the thought of getting out there and being seen, use our Elegant Alchemy healing technique to dissolve your Visibility PTSD. Start by journaling your answer to this question: "If the fear of being seen was no longer important to me, what are the first three steps I'd take to grow my practice?"
Be sure to ask the question exactly the way you see it: "If the fear of being seen was no longer important to me..." We're usually so eager to feel fearless that we can slip into saying, "If I was no longer afraid of being seen..." But that thought can hold you back even more when you don't feel fearless. Rather than trying to make the fear go away, simply be willing to allow the fear to no longer be important to you. That's when you're able to "feel the fear...and do it anyway," as the sage advice goes.
Also, when you answer this question, do your best to name specific steps you can take action on. "I'd get out in the world in a big way" is a great idea, but it doesn't lead you to a next step. "I'd create a video of my three favorite yoga poses and put it on my website," is a tangible action step.
After you've journaled your answers to that first question, choose an area in your home or treatment room where you've got plenty of space. Then stand in the center of the room with your feet hip width apart. Keep your knees soft and balance yourself until you feel stable. Then take a few deep, cleansing breaths and relax even more deeply. Now, gently allow yourself to feel the fear of being seen. Give yourself permission to go deep knowing you're completely safe and protected. Notice what that fear looks like to you. What it feels like. What it sounds like. What it smells like. Even what it takes like. Bring all your senses into the experience.
Stop the madness and take a step back. Once you've truly experienced the fear you've been brushing aside for a lifetime or more, silently count to three — and then take one giant step back. Feel yourself subtly disconnect from the pain of the fear you were just feeling. And notice it now in the space in front of you, where you were just standing.
Realize that everything you see is a reflection of something you secretly believe about yourself. As you consider the fear from this slight distance, answer this powerful question: "That fear must mean I am________________________." Be willing to respond, out loud, with the first thought that pops into your head. Don't censor yourself or try to make sense of it. When you get an answer, follow up with this question: "If [what you just answered] is true, that must mean I am _____________________________." Keep asking and answering that question until you get to the core restriction. How will you know? You'll probably break out in a cold sweat. And you may even feel dizzy or light-headed, because your core restriction is the most frightening thing you can imagine. It's your deepest fear.
When I walked Jack through this process, his deepest fear was intense: "It would be good that I would be destroyed," he said in a low voice. Yet as disturbing as that thought was, I could feel the sacred tenderness he was giving himself by saying it out loud.
Ask the wisest, most eternal part of you to help you forgive yourself for making up that belief. As a healer, you're probably well aware that what you experience day-to-day is the tip of the iceberg called YOU. At the same time, the wisest, most eternal part of you exists beyond of the time-space continuum, in the world of spirit and energy. And it's intimately connected to whatever you think of as God, Goddess, Holy Spirit, Universe, Presence or All That Is.
At this point in the Elegant Alchemy process, you're going to call that part of you forward to help you forgive yourself for making up the belief that your deepest fear is true. Because every block we ever perceive is born out of one single belief we mistakenly bought into eons ago: that we are alone and separate from Source. We subconsciously project that belief into our lives as fear, pain and discontent.
Now it's time to let that mistaken belief go. You do that by simply saying out loud: "Dear [your name for God, Goddess, All That Is], please help me forgive myself for making up the belief that ________________________________." Then complete that sentence with the core fear that came up in step 2.
Affirm the Truth — the opposite of your belief. Once you've asked for help to forgive yourself, immediately answer this statement: "I know the Truth:________________________________." Then, without engaging your thinking mind, reach for the most expansive psychological or spiritual truth you're willing to believe in that moment. Your Truth may be: "I know that I am one with Source and I am always protected, every moment of every day." Or it may be as simple as, "I'm a good person and I've got an important message to share." Whatever your Truth is, the most important thing is that it flows from you naturally. And that it feels true to you.
When I was working with Jack, the atmosphere around us changed dramatically when he called on the wisest, most eternal part of him, which he called Presence: "I know the Truth," he said with a fierce strength in his voice. "I am Presence."
Ask to be filled with peace and led to your best next step. Once you've claimed your Truth, look again at the space in front of you. This time, instead of seeing the fear, see your Truth. Again, engage all of your senses to notice what it looks like. What it feels like. What it sounds like. What it smells like. Even what it tastes like. Continuing to address the wisest, most eternal part of you, simply say: "Please fill me with your peace and lead me to my best next step."
Then you're going to pull it all together in a simple prayer that sounds something like this: "Dear Holy Spirit, please help me forgive myself for making up the belief that I ever could be rejected by anyone else. I know the Truth: I have a lot to share and there are people out there who are ready to hear my message. Please fill me with your peace. And lead me to my best next step."
Then, seeing that Truth projected in the space in front of you, take one giant step forward into it. And continue to breathe as your newly discovered Truth begins to reorganize your cellular structure. Jack Immediately noticed in the space in front of him a sense of expansive, grounded spaciousness. As he stepped into it, a deep sense of peace enveloped us.
Today, he's taking action on the steps he chose at the beginning of this process to ground his newfound freedom in reality. He's outlining a new book he's going to promote when he's traveling around the country teaching his unique form of selfless compassion. As I left him, he was relaxed and at ease with a gentle smile on his face. And he was eager to get started with the next phase of his teaching and healing.
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