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Connecting the Dots
In 2002, I published a book on patient examination procedures that included information on the procedural coding of the recommended examinations. The book should have been published in 2000, but I had trouble finding a publisher. Why?
Mind-Body in Motion
A central goal of low back pain treatment involves the correction of dysfunctional movement patterns believed to be responsible for spinal overload.
News in Brief
An Encouraging Sign at Palmer; NBCE Announces Retirement of Longtime Director of Testing.
It's Time to Create a Strong Acupuncture Footprint
Footprints in the sand. Footprints in the snow. Where do these footprints go? Some are big, some are small, but footprints are made by all.
The Top Seven Website Mistakes Clinics Make
The majority of acupuncture clinics finally have a website for their business. Having a website is crucial for being found online through Google, Facebook and review sites like Yelp.
Neuroscience: Where Western Medicine and Chinese Medicine Can Come Together
The recent advances in neuroscience are truly incredible. With this expansion of scientific knowledge, I would like to see even more research into the neuroscientific basic of acupuncture and Chinese Medicine.
Unlevel Pelvis in the High-School Athlete: Exploring Causes and Effects
The unlevel pelvis is all too common in the high-school athlete and if not detected, will likely cause a lifetime of musculoskeletal issues. Any provider who doesn't look for this common finding is missing critical information.
Help Your Parents Stay Engaged
As much as parents may wish it were so, children do not come with an instruction manual. There's no "how to" that can be followed and no two children are alike, so what works with one generally won't work with the next.
The Conscious Evolution of Healing, Part 2
The idea of transmission is very important in the Chinese medical classics. According to author Claude Larre, the ancient Chinese were highly interested in the connection between things. Nothing was looked at as an isolated entity.
Acupuncture and Homeopathy: Bioenergetic Brothers
Acupuncture and homeopathy share an important healing principle: bioenergetics. "Bio" means "life," so bioenergetics is literally "life energy."
Reflections: The Art of Teaching Asian Medicine
Over the past three decades, my global workshops have been translated into German, Swiss German, French, Romansch, Spanish, Lithuanian and Xhosa. Time to offer you new teachers a few tips!
Leaving Footprints on Capitol Hill: Tribute to Dr. Kenneth Luedtke (1930-2014)
It was with great sadness that I heard of the passing of Dr. Ken Luedtke.
Let's Speak With One Voice in 2015
For the longest time, the chiropractic profession has attempted to achieve some form of unity. On a political level, this was characterized by an ultimately unsuccessful two-year merger effort between ACA and ICA leadership from 1986-1988.
Old TCM Sayings: Treat the Front to Treat the Back
Chinese medicine college was, and always will be, a memorable time. It was a time of massive personal and professional growth.
Case Histories from Bali: Treating Balinese Chidren with TCB and Shonishin
When I moved to the island of Bali in 2005, I offered my services in Bumi Sehat, which means Healthy Mother Earth, a free birthing center for poor and disadvantaged local women located in Ubud.
Are You Really a Healthy Eater?
I always giggle a little bit (to myself) when someone comes into my office and informs me that they are a healthy eater. What exactly does that mean? Does that mean they eat sugar in moderation? And what's that, exactly?
Finding Balance in the Clinic
This past December, I celebrated 11 years in practice. I seriously don't know where the time went. I feel beyond blessed and grateful to be practicing our profound and beautiful medicine and to be helping guide my patients restore a state of optimal health.
The CDC came out with a report in March 2013 that suggests 1 in 50 children will be diagnosed somewhere on the autism spectrum – significantly higher than the 1 in 86 figure that came out in 2007. What does this mean moving forward, particularly for children?
Cell Health (Part 2)
Dr. Barsten, your book is about restoring "cell vitality." Can you briefly define the term? Cell vitality is more than the mere absence of symptoms or pathology, but optimum structural, physiological and energetic health.
It might have been a miserable start to the day in the heart of downtown San Diego. A heavy rain had soaked the large homeless population congregating near the intersection of Third Avenue and Ash Street as they waited for a free breakfast to be served at the First Lutheran Church on the corner.
July, 2014, Vol. 14, Issue 07
The Existential Question and Talking the Walk
By Gerry Pyves
You don't need to be a psychotherapist to talk to your clients or find out why they are coming for a treatment. This is perfectly within your legal "scope of practice." By training to become a psychotherapist, I learned to say much, much less to my massage clients.I learned to let the touch really do the work. I also learned to let the client define their own reality.
You can get plenty of "psycho babble" at every coffee shop in the land. However, I do need to know just why my client is here.
Eric Berne, the founder of Transactional Analysis called this, "asking the existential question." He asked himself: "Why is my client here and not having fun doing sex, drugs and rock and roll?" He also asked himself: "Why am I here and not somewhere else, having fun doing sex, drugs and rock and roll?" It was the sixties, after all. But you probably get the point.
If the client has a tight shoulder, what difference will it make to their life if it is alleviated? How important is it to them? What caused that structural problem? They are made of soft tissue that is more affected by energy, emotion and thoughts than any other substance on the planet. Do we just ignore this fact? If they have a knee problem, what was happening when they injured it? Were they under stress? Was life hard?
Is any of this psychotherapy? Of course not - it is simple human interest. It only becomes invasive if it is done invasively. If you cannot tell the difference between a client keen to share their story and one who is uncomfortable talking about themselves, then it is time to take up another profession. The art of all healing therapy is to know when the time is right to invite the client to share more about themselves.
Symptomatic Or Causative?
Asking questions is how we care for another human being. It is also discovering the essential causative factors of their symptomatic pains. To simply accept a tight shoulder as a structural problem is no better than calling poverty "a shame." These things all have causes and history. Like Sherlock Holmes, we must trace each symptom back to its historical cause, if we wish to be more than some kind of "Mr Fixit dullard." That is not healing touch. It is squashing human beings into a tiny "physical only" box.
Every human deserves to be seen and heard and to be touched. Do you really know why they have invested this money and this time in coming to see you? Do you dare to ask the existential question? Likewise, at the end of the session, do you dare ask, "Did you get what you came for?" In my previous article, I talked about asking the client to walk around at the end of the session. To do this well, requires three basic protocols.
Getting Out The Way
The first protocol is to get myself out of the way both physically and psychologically. Some clients are uncomfortable at first with the idea that they should know anything at all about their own bodies. The harder they find it to put words to their experience of walking, the more important it is to both therapist and client that they do this. If they want you to be the expert on their body, you better plan on moving into their house and living with them, and help them get dressed in the morning.
Listen To The Body
The second protocol is to encourage the client to feel how their body wants to walk. Most illness and tissue compression simply arises out of "the head" dominating "the body." If people rested when they were tired and ate when they were hungry and stopped eating when they were full, we would have a much healthier nation. The key here, is to follow the body.
We encourage the client to feel from the inside just how their body wants to walk. Some clients have had such massive structural shifts from the massage, that they actually walk like babies learning for the first time. The cerebellum has not yet caught up with the changes in muscle, tendon and ligament configuration. Some wobble as they walk. Some notice that they are more than mere structure. Some will connect with their energy or their emotions. Others will feel their spirit or discover a new clarity of thought.
The Rest Of The Day
The third protocol is to ask, "How will this walk affect the rest of your day, compared to when you came in?" If our touch does not make a difference to people's lives then we should probably do something else. Touch done well always make a massive difference - if only we let the clients really feel the power of beautiful healing touch.
Soft Magical Tissue
Once clients start to "talk their body's walk," they start to describe how their body is actually feeling. It is very different from some kind of intellectual chiropractic structural analysis. It is a feeling thing. Nothing connects us with the truth of our deepest inner feelings better than massage.
Find out why your clients have really come. Challenge them if they think they are just a mechanical problem waiting to be fixed by experts. We are not cars. We are human beings made of the most incredible and magical soft tissue that will find its own balance if touched with gentleness and respect. So please stop prodding and poking me. I do not need fixing. I need respectful, gentle touch. Then I will release my compressions - if I am ready.
Whose life is it, anyway?
Gerry Pyves lives in West Yorkshire, in the United Kingdom. He holds an MA from Oxford University and qualified as a massage therapist in 1984. He became a UKCP registered Transactional Analysis psychotherapist in 1999. He is the founder and creator of NO HANDS® Massage. He is currently looking for instructors to teach NO HANDS® in the U.S. For more information, visit www.nohandsmassage.com.
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