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Finding Balance in the Clinic
This past December, I celebrated 11 years in practice. I seriously don't know where the time went. I feel beyond blessed and grateful to be practicing our profound and beautiful medicine and to be helping guide my patients restore a state of optimal health.
Reflections: The Art of Teaching Asian Medicine
Over the past three decades, my global workshops have been translated into German, Swiss German, French, Romansch, Spanish, Lithuanian and Xhosa. Time to offer you new teachers a few tips!
The CDC came out with a report in March 2013 that suggests 1 in 50 children will be diagnosed somewhere on the autism spectrum – significantly higher than the 1 in 86 figure that came out in 2007. What does this mean moving forward, particularly for children?
It's Time to Create a Strong Acupuncture Footprint
Footprints in the sand. Footprints in the snow. Where do these footprints go? Some are big, some are small, but footprints are made by all.
The Conscious Evolution of Healing, Part 2
The idea of transmission is very important in the Chinese medical classics. According to author Claude Larre, the ancient Chinese were highly interested in the connection between things. Nothing was looked at as an isolated entity.
Unlevel Pelvis in the High-School Athlete: Exploring Causes and Effects
The unlevel pelvis is all too common in the high-school athlete and if not detected, will likely cause a lifetime of musculoskeletal issues. Any provider who doesn't look for this common finding is missing critical information.
Mind-Body in Motion
A central goal of low back pain treatment involves the correction of dysfunctional movement patterns believed to be responsible for spinal overload.
The Top Seven Website Mistakes Clinics Make
The majority of acupuncture clinics finally have a website for their business. Having a website is crucial for being found online through Google, Facebook and review sites like Yelp.
Acupuncture and Homeopathy: Bioenergetic Brothers
Acupuncture and homeopathy share an important healing principle: bioenergetics. "Bio" means "life," so bioenergetics is literally "life energy."
Leaving Footprints on Capitol Hill: Tribute to Dr. Kenneth Luedtke (1930-2014)
It was with great sadness that I heard of the passing of Dr. Ken Luedtke.
It might have been a miserable start to the day in the heart of downtown San Diego. A heavy rain had soaked the large homeless population congregating near the intersection of Third Avenue and Ash Street as they waited for a free breakfast to be served at the First Lutheran Church on the corner.
Cell Health (Part 2)
Dr. Barsten, your book is about restoring "cell vitality." Can you briefly define the term? Cell vitality is more than the mere absence of symptoms or pathology, but optimum structural, physiological and energetic health.
Are You Really a Healthy Eater?
I always giggle a little bit (to myself) when someone comes into my office and informs me that they are a healthy eater. What exactly does that mean? Does that mean they eat sugar in moderation? And what's that, exactly?
Connecting the Dots
In 2002, I published a book on patient examination procedures that included information on the procedural coding of the recommended examinations. The book should have been published in 2000, but I had trouble finding a publisher. Why?
Help Your Parents Stay Engaged
As much as parents may wish it were so, children do not come with an instruction manual. There's no "how to" that can be followed and no two children are alike, so what works with one generally won't work with the next.
News in Brief
An Encouraging Sign at Palmer; NBCE Announces Retirement of Longtime Director of Testing.
Put the Social Back Into Social Media
Social media is more than a passing fad, it is definitely here to stay. Social media apps and channels of distribution may evolve, but the concept of social media is now big business and a part of all our lives.
Neuroscience: Where Western Medicine and Chinese Medicine Can Come Together
The recent advances in neuroscience are truly incredible. With this expansion of scientific knowledge, I would like to see even more research into the neuroscientific basic of acupuncture and Chinese Medicine.
Let's Speak With One Voice in 2015
For the longest time, the chiropractic profession has attempted to achieve some form of unity. On a political level, this was characterized by an ultimately unsuccessful two-year merger effort between ACA and ICA leadership from 1986-1988.
Case Histories from Bali: Treating Balinese Chidren with TCB and Shonishin
When I moved to the island of Bali in 2005, I offered my services in Bumi Sehat, which means Healthy Mother Earth, a free birthing center for poor and disadvantaged local women located in Ubud.
April, 2014, Vol. 14, Issue 04
Understanding How to Turn Consults Into Clients
By Sharon Desjarlais, CC and Michele McGrew
Have you ever met someone you knew you could help, but you held back from offering your therapy because it felt awkward or "salesy"? We get it. As a big-hearted healer, you probably cringe at the idea of selling your services.And that can make conversations with potential clients uncomfortable. Or worse, you might not have them at all.
The problem is, when you hold back, you also miss out on the positive impact — and the generous income — that are natural byproducts of your healing gifts. And the person you could have helped stays stuck in pain and frustration. Now, imagine you had an easy way to invite potential clients to work with you that allowed you to stay focused on service rather than sales. Here's one that's generous, authentic and actually feels good to offer: It's called a Breakthrough Session and is a complimentary phone consult you give as a healing gift to potential clients.
Don't be fooled here. We're not talking about your garden-variety phone consult, where someone calls and asks questions like, "What do you charge?" And you stammer out an answer. A Breakthrough Session is a 6-step business strategy you can use again and again to convert potential clients into paying clients. It's the key to filling your practice with clients you LOVE, without feeling like a used car salesman.
When you begin these conversations by allowing your potential client — we'll call her a guest — to give voice to her most pressing problems or pain, you act as a witness to her journey. And, according to author and intuitive Carolyn Myss, that's the most profound gift you can give another human being.
So, give your guest space to explore her pain and how it's impacting other areas of her life, like her children, her marriage or her career. Be willing to go deep, asking with light-hearted curiosity and compassion, "What is this really costing you?" Then hold a therapeutic presence as she follows the ripple effects of what her pain is costing her into every area of her life. This may even be the first time she's ever made this connection, so it can be an eye-opener.
Once your guest shares her feelings about the pain or the problem she's facing, take a moment to reflect that back to her in her own words. Resist the urge to put your own spin on things. This allows her to feel fully seen by you and it helps you feel certain that you understand where she's coming from. What's more, when people believe you understand their pain, they subconsciously credit you with the solution. And that alone puts you in a powerful position to be the healer she hires to help.
Create a Clear Picture
Of course, as a compassionate healer, the last thing you want to do is leave your guest in a state of pain and hopelessness. Now, you want to ignite her imagination by helping her paint a picture of what she wants her life to look like and feel like on the other side of her pain.
Try one of our favorite questions: "If I could wave a magic wand and your [pain, problem, challenge] was gone in an instant, what would your life look like then?" Then give your guest time to talk about all those activities she'd love to do that she can't do now. Does she miss gardening? Morning yoga classes? Lifting her grandkids onto her lap? Remember, your help represents more than pain relief. It improves her whole life.
As always, invite her to connect her vision to how she'll feel when she's there. Then, just as you did with her pain, reflect that back to her in her own words, staying focused on the big payoff that's possible when she's feeling vibrant and well.
Ask The Magic Questions
Once you've witnessed your guest's pain and held the space for her desire to unfold, ask her these two magic questions: "How were you hoping I could help you with this?" And, "On a scale from 1 to 10, how important is it for you to solve this?" They instantly create a bridge between your guest's problems and your expert help.
By asking her how she's hoping you can help, you're able to relate your services directly to her needs, so she instantly understands the value of what you offer. And the second question allows her to see how important her health and well-being really are, so she can finally make a decision to change.
Give Your Guest Hope
Of course, it's impossible to guarantee that anyone's life will change with your help, because every client responds in a unique way. What you can do is share stories about other clients with similar issues who have had successful therapeutic outcomes. When you do that, you bring to life what your guest believes is possible when she says yes to your services. And by engaging her mind in reaching a solution, the healing has already begun.
So feel free to demonstrate your expertise by sharing one or two of your favorite client-success stories. Be sure to include the results your clients experienced and how those results impacted other areas of their lives as well.
The "Aha" Moment
At this point in the Breakthrough Session, you've witnessed your guest's pain, you've elevated her into a higher vision of what's possible on the other side of that pain, you've helped her make her health a priority and you've given her hope that something better is possible. Now, to help her embody the value you offer, this is the perfect time to ask her what breakthroughs or "aha's" she experienced in the course of your conversation. You may hear things like, "I had no idea this was affecting my job so much." Or, "I just thought I had to live with this pain. I didn't think it was possible to move past it."
Whatever your guest comes back with, simply receive it. Then lead her to the next step with this simple transition question: "If I could help you go even further with this to powerfully move from where you are now to where you want to be, is that something you'd like to hear about?"
Offer a Solution
If your guest is someone you know you can help and you truly want to work with, it's time to offer her your therapy. But here's the key: People don't care about what you do, they care about how you can help them. So, when you're talking about your work, stay focused on the benefits, not on your process or modality.
Once you've shared a few possible outcomes your guest might enjoy when she makes the decision to work with you, ask her if she'd like to hear the investment. (Notice we didn't say price, fee or cost. That's because people naturally expect an investment to have a healthy payoff.)
Finally, share your investment with confidence. Then STOP TALKING. Let the value of your therapy resonate with your guest. Give her time to stretch into the improvements you're offering. Then get ready to schedule her first hands-on session. This is the moment your potential client becomes a paying client. And you become richly rewarded for doing the healing work you love.
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