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TCM & the Caregiving Population: Treatment Considerations & Our Vital Role
Informal caregiving is increasingly a reality for many Americans who find themselves providing unpaid care for a loved one or a family member with a long-term, terminal, or chronic illness.
ICA Goes on the Vaccine Offensive
Have you watched the vaccination documentary, "Vaxxed: From Cover-Up to Catastrophe," by Andrew Wakefield MD, director, and Del Bigtree, producer? This is the documentary Robert DeNiro was pressured to remove from his Tribeca Film Festival.
Treating the Lower Pelvis (Pt. 2): Midline Structures and Fascia
My previous article [October 2016 issue] outlined evaluation and treatment of pelvic issues involving the sacrotuberous ligament and the pubic symphysis. Now let's discuss two case studies that illustrate how to address additional problematic areas of the pelvis.
Gather & Grow
I recently attended a faculty seminar held by one of the acupuncture schools. There was a facilitator who led us through some very interesting experiences. The attendees were a diverse group with varying opinions.
The Large Intestine Official
The large intestine (AKA colon) is the great eliminator, or as J.R. Worsley called it, "The Drainer of the Dregs." Dregs are defined as the remnants of liquid with its sediment left in a container, or the basest, least valuable portion of anything.
Paperwork Done Wrong, Done Right
I was visiting a doctor's office recently and a member of his staff brought a stack of forms to his private office and laid them on the doctor's desk. She informed him he needed to complete the forms for patients and a few third parties.
Correcting Rib Dysfunction: Improve Patients' Pain, Posture and Breathing
As chiropractors, we tend to focus on the spine, and rightly so. Many problems our patients face can be corrected by manipulating the correct spinal level.
VF Works / DMX Works Epilogue: Almost Two Decades Later, the Lawsuits Continue
An article in the March 8, 1999 edition of Dynamic Chiropractic examined whether then-VF Works / Nu-Best Franchising was selling its franchises illegally to doctors of chiropractic.
AOM Residency at NUNM
Imagine you're a recent acupuncture graduate, worried about making enough income as you forge your new career and seek more in-depth training in a particular treatment style.
Advancing the "Whole Organ" Spine Model
Historically, the human spine has been organized by body region utilizing specific anatomical landmarks and transition zones.
Getting Unstuck: Healing From Trauma With TCM, Qigong & Movement
We all come into this world vulnerable, with seeds to grow into our strength. Some of us — through a combination of good fortune (i.e., family and culture we are born into, constitutional inheritance, or ability to learn) grow with minimal interruption from traumatic injuries and experiences.
Latest Cassidy Study on Stroke Risk Published
The latest study to investigate whether a unique association between chiropractic manipulation and risk of cervical artery dissection / stroke exists has yielded similar encouraging findings, with the authors noting "no excess risk of carotid artery stroke after chiropractic care" and no significant risk difference between patients receiving care from a DC or a primary care medical provider.
Spiritual Initiation: Opening Your Higher Healing Abilities
People drawn to the field of acupuncture and Oriental Medicine tend to be those who march to the beat of a different drummer.
The Acupuncture Channel System (Part 2)
The primary channels (main channels) are introduced in chapter 10 of the Ling Shu, these channels are referenced in many chapters throughout the Su Wen and the Ling Shu. The primary channels have become the main channel system used in TCM.
House Calls With Dad
My father was a chiropractor and he did house calls. On Wednesday nights, while my mother attended the weekly women's meeting at the Odd Fellows and Rebekahs hall in our small town, dad loaded up the portable adjusting table, fired up the Pontiac and drove off to treat a few patients in their homes. I went with him.
Reader Beware: Consider the Source
The aftermath of last year's presidential elections brought a running conversation on the role played by "fake news" that was largely presented via social media.
Chiropractic in Texas Is Under Attack
The profession of chiropractic faces an unprecedented challenge in Texas, an attack that is more aggressive, sustained and dangerous than anything previously seen. The medical lobby has launched a coordinated, multi-front assault.
Waist Circumference: A Conversation Starter
New estimates suggest more than two-thirds of Americans are either overweight or obese. The medical significance of this statistic is astounding.
News in Brief
The American Association of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine (AAAOM) board members recently met with the Korean Customs Service, which is similar to the FDA, to discuss herbal safety and importation issues.
A Brief History of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine Doctoral Programs
A doctorate in acupuncture and Oriental medicine has been a goal of the profession since its beginnings in the late 1970s. At that time, however, the maturity of the educational institutions and the regulatory environment made it a goal with only a distant completion date.
4 Things Every DC Should Know About Levels of Care & Prevention
As health practitioners, we help people with their health problems and assist them with health promotion and disease prevention.
Near-Infrared Therapy for Diabetic Neuropathy
The pain experienced by people with diabetes is a symptom of diabetic neuropathy. The impact on quality of life is significant. Pain makes walking difficult, sleep troublesome, and eventually contributes to a decrease in social interaction.
May, 2012, Vol. 12, Issue 05
The Five Fundamentals for Building Your Business
By Cary Bayer
As a business coach for massage therapists, every day I see so many people in pain — suffering in relationships, in unconscious communication and in desperate financial situations. As LMTs, you see pain, too.You and I face similar challenges: namely, how do you get people to recognize they deserve relief from pain? The answer: knowledge and techniques to help break through to better health In your case; and better relationships, more money, and greater happiness in mine. I've seen similar patterns in the more than 260 massage therapists I've coached so I'll draw on them to offer you motivation now and practical tools for the future. To invoke the Chinese proverb, "I'll offer you fish for food for the day, and knowledge of how to fish to feed yourself for a lifetime."
To become successful and happy, you need more than massage techniques alone. Being alive means that you're on an intriguing journey to self-knowledge, peace and prosperity. So, what do you know about journeys? "A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step," said Lao-Tzu, the great Taoist master. Yogis offer wisdom, too. "You've got to be careful if you don't know where you're going ‘cause you might not get there." That yogi was named Berra. Continue reading to learn the five "S's" for creating a successful massage business. These are: self-knowledge, Strategy, serenity, sales effectiveness and success thinking.
The 1st S: Knowledge of Self
You need to know what you want from business and who you truly are. Socrates said, "the unexamined life is not worth living." He might have added, "The unexamined massage business is not worth practicing." Self-employed people are often so busy trying to make ends meet, that they overlook taking time to shape their businesses. So ask yourself some vital questions:
Find these answers right away to progress with a direction that you could move in with velocity.
The 2nd S: Strategy
Managers hustle to get things done to meet various deadlines. Leaders, on the other hand, create visions to evolve the business into and a strategy for the manager to accomplish them. Strategies are necessary for people or organizations intent on growth; they incorporate short-, mid- and long-term goals. When you've got a plan, you know where you're going and can guide your actions effectively.
The 3rd S: Serenity
People want to work with you because of your hands and your spirit. Many clients see you as a healer who helps them manage stress. Clients don't want stressed-out massage therapists. Therapists with good hands and good vibes succeed. So much success depends on our serenity. As the great French philosopher Blaise Pascal said, "all of man's troubles stem from his inability to sit quietly in a room alone." I could give you the experience of profound serenity, but I'd need to put on my hat as a teacher of Higher Self Healing Meditation, and it takes several hours to do that, and I can't do it by remote. In one minute, however, I can give you a small dose of serenity.
Close your eyes now, and take a deep breath. Release all your cares and breathe like this for a minute. Do you feel silence and peace? Can you see what this one-minute breather can do if you center this way before each massage? This is the value of serenity.
The 4th S: Sales
Many therapists dread selling their services. Mostly it's because they think they're selling themselves, and if nobody buys, they're not liked. A person can't be sold in America. You can rent your services by the hour on your table. Once you truly get the distinction between selling yourself and renting your services, anxiety and the sense of rejection can completely disappear. Do you remember when you were in kindergarten, and you played show and tell? You brought something to school that you loved and shared it with the other kids. Perhaps a favorite doll, baseball glove or teddy bear, and you inspired the others. Unfortunately, they had no way of getting it, because there was only one of them and it belonged to you. Show and tell is a bit of a selfish tease because your enthusiasm interests people in having something that they can't have.
Therapists can play a similar game today, in which they just as enthusiastically describe whatever it is that they love. Only this time, it's spelled slightly differently. It's called show and sell. It's similar to show and tell, except that you don't have a stuffed animal to show and pass around the room. But you do have massage techniques that you can talk about. In fact, in half a minute you can even demonstrate the benefit of such techniques. The good news about your work is that it doesn't take more than a few seconds for someone to feel the benefits of it.
So, if somebody asks what you do, show and tell them. Their neck and back are very interested in what you can do. You have no idea how people value your work. The famous actress Hedy Lamarr once said, "I don't fear death because I don't fear anything I don't understand. When I start to think about it, I order a massage and it goes away." Virtually every adult you see every day, wants what you offer. Everyone wants less pain. When someone is interested in having less pain, ask them, "Would you like to set up a session to relieve this pain?" This question sets show and tell apart from show and sell, because now the person can have the great thing that you're enthusiastic about. You're not five-years-old anymore and neither is this person — you're probably each closer to forty five than to five. They have been holding tensions in their body for longer than five years. It's innocent to ask if they would like to have less tension. It's what we call selling. It needn't be more complicated than that.
Learn these "S's" because an increasing number of people will be coming to you for massages. According to AMTA research, through 2012, massage therapists are likely to see a 20-35 percent rise in job opportunities. Some 47 million Americans got massages between August 2004 and July 2005, with 34 percent of adults receiving a massage in the previous five years. With only 17 percent of men in that previous year having been massaged, more than 8 of 10 men haven't experienced massage in 365 days. That's a huge opportunity for them and you. Two of three adults haven't been massaged. Virtually everyone wants what you offer. Ask clients to share their benefits with friends. Seventy three percent of people polled who get massage would recommend it to others. Talk to health professionals, too. Seventy percent of therapists receive two referrals monthly from healthcare pros. Talk to these medical doctors and chiropractors.
The 5th S: Success Thinking
Success is a function of our attitude. As positive thinking guru Norman Vincent Peale said, "change your thoughts and you change your world." You ate 20,000 meals at your parents' dining room table while you were growing up under their roof. And money was a major topic of conversation at that table. You learned many limited ideas there, as if they were Reality with a capital "R." They weren't. They were just your parents' opinions with a lower case "o." Here are some common ones:
There are three other big opinions. The first is so universal that I've seen it in students from all over the world:
So I ask, who's left? Known enemies? That's why, at different points in your career, you've unconsciously turned bosses, clients or customers into known enemies. But don't despair. I have a technique to transform limiting beliefs. First, I want to show you how to receive, because parental training about receiving money has confused the act of receiving itself. It's important, as therapists — masters all at giving — that you learn how to receive. You voluntarily massage politicians, marathoners and Olympians. Now it's time to master receiving.
If it's difficult receiving appreciation, it's difficult receiving money. Your net worth is tied to your self-worth. Enhance the latter and you can increase the former. To prosper, it's essential that you master receiving money. This technique starts by acknowledging someone for a minute. t can look something like the following:
And so on. After a minute, have them acknowledge you. This can look something along the lines of the following:
If they acknowledges your dress, please don't say, "This old thing." Or, "got it at Marshalls for 60% off." You do this every day. You'll be amazed at how powerful this technique is for overcoming this kind of deflecting of appreciation. Two minutes daily will increase your self-esteem and teach you how to receive appreciation. You may want peace of mind more than a piece of Berkshire Hathaway stock, but you can have both. You're more effective when not worrying about how to pay this month's mortgage. The Italians say, "the money you refuse will never do you any good." A Yiddish proverb goes, "with money in your pocket, you are handsome, you are wise, and you sing well, too."
Confidence and competence creates success. I can't teach you competence with massage techniques but I can teach you confidence. When confidence is overwhelming, others want to be around you, they want what you have, and they will pay you for it. Babies emanate positive energy. That's one reason you love their presence. Material success — in the Olympics, business or massage — depends on your inner success. I've seen many talented massage therapists quit doing body work because they couldn't support themselves. That's a real loss for the world and for themselves. I don't want that to happen to you.
To master the inner life, transform negative thinking in your conscious and subconscious minds. It's essential to believe in yourself and overcome fears of failure. Athletes succeed on playing fields because they master the mental field. This technique creates powerful transformation. Think the thought: "I can prosper and succeed as a massage therapist." Then record the first negative thought that disagrees with it. Let's say that it's, "Massage therapists don't make much money." We're not focusing on the negative here, we're releasing it. These thoughts live in the subconscious part of the mind and help attract that corresponding reality to you, as the Law of Attraction points out.
"A" invokes a reality that you desire to be your reality. "B" releases an obstacle that prevents the thought from becoming reality. The next step transforms the limited obstacle with a new affirmation geared specifically to present a larger reality to the smaller part of your mind that entertained the limited thought in the first place. Here's a good one, "I'm so magnetic to clients that my schedule is always full." It's difficult to prosper as a massage therapist when you don't think that you can, don't deserve to, aren't smart enough to or aren't talented or experienced enough to. Why should people flock to you if you don't think they should? When you're clear that you deserve to prosper, think that you can, and are smart, talented and skilled enough to, your chances rise significantly.
I call this ABC affirmation technique, the ABCs of Transformation because, in three steps, it introduces success, eliminates failure in your thinking, and re-introduces success to parts of the mind that entertained failure. We just did one repetition; do a few more for 10 minutes daily. It's an inner prosperity aerobics workout.
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