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Key Changes and Updates to the 7th Edition CNT Manual
Acupuncture Today recently interviewed Jennifer Brett, ND, L.Ac. regarding the updates to the CNT manaul.
I was sitting in a Pizza Hut in Peoria, Ill., with my friend Reggie, sometime in the spring of my senior year in college, when he started doodling on his paper placemat. In those days, the company had a picture of U.S. on the mats, showing all the locations of the "Huts" in the country.
Creating Relationships at Southwest Symposium
The month of May brought many interesting activities. As I have said in many previous columns this year, this profession is moving in a very exciting direction. Make sure you are getting involved. If you're not, you just might get left behind.
Marketing with a Microphone
When given an option, it stands to reason that people prefer to do business with those they know, like, and trust.
Integrative Medicine for the Underserved: A Seat at the Table
Numerous organizations have risen to the challenge of providing care to medically-underserved populations and here we feature one such group.
Chinese Doctors Poke Holes in Australian Study
A recent Australian clinical trial, published in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) in 2014 by Rana Hinman, et el., evaluating the effectiveness of both needle and laser acupuncture for chronic knee pain.
An International Life: An Interview with Mary Elizabeth Wakefield
I met Mary Elizabeth Wakefield during her class last summer in Seneca Falls, New York at the Finger Lakes School of Chinese Medicine.
Going On-Site With Chiropractic Care
The Foundation for Chiropractic Progress has released a position paper highlighting the financial, clinical and patient-satisfaction benefits of providing chiropractic care at on-site corporate health clinics.
The Source-Luo Point Combination, Part 2
The Da Cheng includes symptoms for the source-luo points that indicate when to use them for treatment. Yang defines the method as the guest-host (it is one of a variety of acupuncture point combinations called guest-host).
Meet Cheyenne: Your Future Colleague
Allow me to introduce you to Cheyenne (Chey), the daughter of some of our family's closest friends. We attend and serve at the same church together, and have known each other for many years.
Q&A With the First VA Chiropractic Residents
As you may have read previously, a major step forward for the profession occurred in July 2014 when the Department of Veterans Affairs began piloting a chiropractic residency program at five locations.
NCCAOM Video Contest
The NCCAOM is excited to announce the launch of the second annual video contest "Because it Works!" 2015.
Should You Change an Athlete's Natural Running Form?
Once past the ankle, impact forces travel at about 200 mph into the knee. In addition to allowing the quad to absorb force, bending the knee (E) prevents the hip and pelvis from moving up and down too much (F), which is important for injury prevention and efficiency.
The Three Heater Official
This Official, belonging to the element Fire, is responsible for maintaining and regulating the heating system of the body, mind, and spirit. It is named for its function. The trunk is divided into three "burning spaces" or "jiaos."
Desert: A Metaphor from the Study of Genetics
In most of the human lives I know about, there are stretches of time which feel stagnant, or worse. We can feel adrift, or wounded and sidelined, and these times don't seem to carry much usefulness while they are unfolding.
The Risks I Took
We all take risks when we choose this profession. For some, it is not knowing if you can make a living practicing TCM. For others, it is parental or cultural disapproval.
Treatment of PTSD: An Opportunity for the Practice of Integrated Medicine
PTSD is widespread across America today. Not only do many of our honored men and women in uniform bring it home with them from the war zones they have been active in, but it often follows any life-threatening event people go through when their lives have been in danger.
Leg-Length Inequality and Pelvic Fixation: A New Approach to the Negative Derifield (Part 3)
A patient with sacroiliac fixation and dysfunction ordinarily demonstrates a noticeable leg-length inequality when placed in the prone position on the adjusting table.
News in Brief
Investigating the Cellular Impact of Mechanical Force; National Board Seats (Not-So) New Officers at Annual Meeting.
Sports Medicine 101: Surgery or No Surgery?
In the world of sports medicine, many careers are saved by surgeries that correct traumatic damage to the body. Muscle tears, ligament damage, fractures, spinal disc herniations, and joint instabilities are a few of the issues frequently addressed with surgical intervention.
Free Yourself From the Pocketbook Practice
Let's take a journey together; there's an important lesson to be learned. Imagine a town or city just like yours.
Nomenclature and Classification of Lumbar Disc Pathology: Version 2.0
The Nomenclature and Classification of Lumbar Disc Pathology consensus, published in 2001 by the collaborative efforts of the North American Spine Society, the American Society of Spine Radiology and the American Society of Neuroradiology, has guided radiologists, clinicians and the public for more than a decade.
January, 2009, Vol. 09, Issue 01
Raising Fees by Raising Self-Esteem
By Cary Bayer
The easiest way to raise your income as a licensed massage therapist is to raise your fees. You don't need to get any new clients, you don't need to sell existing clients any new packages, and you don't need to sell any new products. The easiest way to raise your fees is to raise your self-esteem. But I'm getting ahead of myself.
The whole issue of raising your fee is a charged topic for many, so let me backtrack and first set the groundwork. Virtually every massage therapist, even those who are self-employed, has some history of being an employee. The same is true for most employers in our country. As a result, most of us have had a history of asking for a raise. For those who are more timid than not, that experience was fraught with butterflies. That's a nice way of saying that they were scared s*#$less.
Those experiences probably taught us two things: (1) Asking for a raise (in other words, increasing your income) is filled with anxiety; and (2) It can be hard to get a raise (easy to think if you were often unsuccessful in your attempts to procure one in the past).
The emotional traumas incurred from asking for raises are stored in your body and mind, even if you're now self-employed. If you're a massage therapist, these old scars will likely surface when it comes time to raise your fees. If you're a timid massage therapist, they might not. That's not because you've healed more quickly than more-confident LMTs, but because you're less likely to attempt to raise your fees in the first place.
Let's assume that it's time to raise the fees that you charge for your massages. The good news is that you no longer have to convince a boss or a committee that you deserve such a raise. Now that you're self-employed, all you have to do is make the decision for yourself. Clients will either accept the raise or they won't. Having raised my own fees many times in the 24 years that I've been self-employed, I'll give you one simple, but highly effective, shortcut to successfully raising your fees: convince yourself first that you deserve the increased rates.
If you succeed in doing this, you'll likely receive little or no resistance from your clients. But if you don't take the time to persuade yourself, if you don't do the inner work that's necessary to make such a transformation, I can guarantee that you will receive resistance from your clients. I don't say this to be negative; I say it because it's true. We're such mirrors for each other. I've seen this play out countless times in countless self-employed professionals from all walks of life and across different industries over the past couple of decades.
Taking the time to accomplish the inner transformation is somewhat analogous to a piece of advice I've received countless times from massage therapists throughout the country. Namely, that as an avid and active tennis player who's on the courts three or four times per week, it's vital for me to stretch before and after matches. When I take the time to follow this wise counsel, my body recovers faster and with less strain from the intense workout. When I arrive late and other players are waiting to get started, I'll sometimes forego the stretches. Or if, after finishing play, I'm late for a meeting, I'll often take a pass on the post-play cooldown. The people giving the advice are always right - my body suffers as a result. As the wise maxim goes, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure." It's as true for a tennis player stretching muscles as it is for a massage therapist stretching self-esteem.
The reason for the inner change is that our self-worth is intricately linked to our net worth. This is such an important principle - and one that many therapists have not heard stated so succinctly - that I'll take a moment to repeat it so that it sinks in more deeply: Self-worth is linked to net worth. Those with low self-esteem often find themselves in dead-end, low-paying jobs. They usually find it hard to ask for a raise, and if they muster the courage to do so, they're often denied. On the other hand, those with high self-esteem often find themselves in higher-paying positions, with many opportunities for growth and expansion in their careers, along with the higher salaries and bonuses that naturally come along with that.
When you feel poorly about yourself, you wouldn't dare think about asking clients to pay you more money than they've been accustomed to. Conversely, when you feel great about yourself, the prospect of getting paid more for your services doesn't seem as daunting.
Now that you've come to see the relationship between self-worth and net worth, let's take a moment to look at the word discount. When you discount yourself, you don't appreciate yourself. As a result, you don't take in the compliments and praise of others. You shuffle them off as if they meant nothing, because you think you're nothing. Then the idea of changing your fees can mean only one thing: lowering them, rather than raising them. We have a word in English for lowering prices: it's called discounting. And it comes about when you've first discounted yourself. When you do, you discount your fees. When you praise yourself, you raise your fees. You make the choice.
Let's say that you propose to raise your fee from $60 per session to $70. One good affirmation you can use to help create the inner transformation is: "I'm so talented and experienced as a massage therapist that my clients are getting a bargain to pay only $70 for my massages." It's worth a few minutes a day to transform your belief system. As the old Johnny Mercer song goes,
"You've got to accentuate the positive
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