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An International Life: An Interview with Mary Elizabeth Wakefield
I met Mary Elizabeth Wakefield during her class last summer in Seneca Falls, New York at the Finger Lakes School of Chinese Medicine.
Marketing with a Microphone
When given an option, it stands to reason that people prefer to do business with those they know, like, and trust.
Creating Relationships at Southwest Symposium
The month of May brought many interesting activities. As I have said in many previous columns this year, this profession is moving in a very exciting direction. Make sure you are getting involved. If you're not, you just might get left behind.
Free Yourself From the Pocketbook Practice
Let's take a journey together; there's an important lesson to be learned. Imagine a town or city just like yours.
The Source-Luo Point Combination, Part 2
The Da Cheng includes symptoms for the source-luo points that indicate when to use them for treatment. Yang defines the method as the guest-host (it is one of a variety of acupuncture point combinations called guest-host).
Desert: A Metaphor from the Study of Genetics
In most of the human lives I know about, there are stretches of time which feel stagnant, or worse. We can feel adrift, or wounded and sidelined, and these times don't seem to carry much usefulness while they are unfolding.
Meet Cheyenne: Your Future Colleague
Allow me to introduce you to Cheyenne (Chey), the daughter of some of our family's closest friends. We attend and serve at the same church together, and have known each other for many years.
NCCAOM Video Contest
The NCCAOM is excited to announce the launch of the second annual video contest "Because it Works!" 2015.
Nomenclature and Classification of Lumbar Disc Pathology: Version 2.0
The Nomenclature and Classification of Lumbar Disc Pathology consensus, published in 2001 by the collaborative efforts of the North American Spine Society, the American Society of Spine Radiology and the American Society of Neuroradiology, has guided radiologists, clinicians and the public for more than a decade.
Chinese Doctors Poke Holes in Australian Study
A recent Australian clinical trial, published in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) in 2014 by Rana Hinman, et el., evaluating the effectiveness of both needle and laser acupuncture for chronic knee pain.
The Three Heater Official
This Official, belonging to the element Fire, is responsible for maintaining and regulating the heating system of the body, mind, and spirit. It is named for its function. The trunk is divided into three "burning spaces" or "jiaos."
Going On-Site With Chiropractic Care
The Foundation for Chiropractic Progress has released a position paper highlighting the financial, clinical and patient-satisfaction benefits of providing chiropractic care at on-site corporate health clinics.
Integrative Medicine for the Underserved: A Seat at the Table
Numerous organizations have risen to the challenge of providing care to medically-underserved populations and here we feature one such group.
Q&A With the First VA Chiropractic Residents
As you may have read previously, a major step forward for the profession occurred in July 2014 when the Department of Veterans Affairs began piloting a chiropractic residency program at five locations.
News in Brief
Investigating the Cellular Impact of Mechanical Force; National Board Seats (Not-So) New Officers at Annual Meeting.
Treatment of PTSD: An Opportunity for the Practice of Integrated Medicine
PTSD is widespread across America today. Not only do many of our honored men and women in uniform bring it home with them from the war zones they have been active in, but it often follows any life-threatening event people go through when their lives have been in danger.
Leg-Length Inequality and Pelvic Fixation: A New Approach to the Negative Derifield (Part 3)
A patient with sacroiliac fixation and dysfunction ordinarily demonstrates a noticeable leg-length inequality when placed in the prone position on the adjusting table.
Key Changes and Updates to the 7th Edition CNT Manual
Acupuncture Today recently interviewed Jennifer Brett, ND, L.Ac. regarding the updates to the CNT manaul.
The Risks I Took
We all take risks when we choose this profession. For some, it is not knowing if you can make a living practicing TCM. For others, it is parental or cultural disapproval.
Sports Medicine 101: Surgery or No Surgery?
In the world of sports medicine, many careers are saved by surgeries that correct traumatic damage to the body. Muscle tears, ligament damage, fractures, spinal disc herniations, and joint instabilities are a few of the issues frequently addressed with surgical intervention.
I was sitting in a Pizza Hut in Peoria, Ill., with my friend Reggie, sometime in the spring of my senior year in college, when he started doodling on his paper placemat. In those days, the company had a picture of U.S. on the mats, showing all the locations of the "Huts" in the country.
Should You Change an Athlete's Natural Running Form?
Once past the ankle, impact forces travel at about 200 mph into the knee. In addition to allowing the quad to absorb force, bending the knee (E) prevents the hip and pelvis from moving up and down too much (F), which is important for injury prevention and efficiency.
April, 2008, Vol. 08, Issue 04
Five Fundamentals for Building Your Massage Business, Part 2
By Cary Bayer
In the previous installment of this column, we explored four of the first five fundamental S's of success: knowledge of self, strategy, serenity and sales effectiveness. In this article, we'll examine the fifth and final S - successful thinking.
Success is a function of our attitude. As positive-thinking guru Norman Vincent Peale said, "Change your thoughts and you change your world." You ate 20,000 meals at your parents' dining room table, where money was a major topic of conversation. You learned many limited ideas there, as if they were reality.
Here are some common ones: There isn't enough money because it doesn't grow on trees. Money is dirty and corrupts. Rich people are greedy, poor people are selfless. You have to do things you don't like to get money. You won't get paid much to do what you love. Money is for men. Life is a struggle.
There are three other biggies. The first is so universal - I've seen it in students from all over the world. Don't take money from strangers. Don't take money from family. Don't take money from friends. So I ask, who is left? Known enemies?
That's why you've turned bosses, clients or customers into known enemies. But don't despair. I have a technique to transform limiting beliefs. First, I want to show you how to receive, because parental training about receiving money has confused the act of receiving itself. It's important for LMTs - masters at giving - to learn how to receive. You voluntarily massage politicians, marathoners and Olympians. Now it's time to master receiving.
If it's difficult receiving appreciation, it's also difficult receiving money. In order to prosper, you need to master receiving money. This technique starts by acknowledging someone for a minute:
And so on. After a minute, have the client acknowledge you.
If the client acknowledges your dress, please don't say, "This old thing," or "I got it at Marshalls for 60 percent off." You'll be amazed at how powerful this technique is. Two minutes daily will increase your self-esteem and teach you how to receive appreciation.
Greater self-worth creates greater net worth. You may want peace of mind more than a piece of Berkshire Hathaway, a prominent financial company, but you can have both. You're more effective when not worrying about how to pay this month's mortgage. Confidence and competence create success. I can't teach you competence with massage techniques, but I can teach you confidence. When confidence is overwhelming, others want to be around you, want what you have and will pay you for it.
Babies emanate positive energy. That's one reason you love their presence. Material success - in the Olympics, business or massage - depends on your inner success. I've seen many talented massage therapists quit because they couldn't support themselves. That's a real loss for the world and for them. I don't want that to happen to you.
Basketball's greatest player of all time, Michael Jordan, wouldn't have achieved magnificence on the court or hundreds of millions of dollars in endorsements if he couldn't "go inside," he said, to a place deep within himself and connect with what he called the "truth" of who he was.
To master the inner life, transform negative thinking in your conscious and subconscious minds. "If the subconscious is not 100 percent in sync with the conscious mind, success is not going to happen," said Eddie Murphy.
Athletes succeed on playing fields because they master the mental field. This applies to being the world's greatest bodybuilder just as it does for being California's governor. As Arnold Schwarzenegger said, "The mind is the limit. As long as the mind can envision the fact that you can do something, you can do it as long as you really believe 100 percent."
If you want success as a massage therapist, think successfully and eliminate negative thoughts. Johnny Mercer wrote, "You've got to accentuate the positive. Eliminate the negative. Latch on to the affirmative. Don't mess with Mr. In-between."
This technique creates powerful transformation. Think the thought: "I can prosper and succeed as a massage therapist." Then record the first negative thought that disagrees with it. Let's say that thought is, "Massage therapists don't make much money." We're not focusing on the negative, we're releasing it. These thoughts live in the subconscious.
"A" invokes a reality you desire. "B" releases an obstacle preventing the thought from becoming reality. The next step transforms the limited obstacle with a new affirmation geared specifically to present a larger reality to the smaller part of your mind. Here's a good one: "I'm so magnetic to clients that my schedule is always full."
It's difficult to prosper as a massage therapist when you don't think you can, don't deserve to, aren't smart enough, or aren't talented or experienced enough. Why should people flock to you if you don't think they should? When you're clear you deserve to prosper, think you can, and are smart, talented and skilled enough to, your chances rise significantly.I call this the ABC's of transformation because in three steps it introduces success, eliminates failure in your thinking, and reintroduces success to parts of the mind that entertained failure. We just did one repetition; do 10 daily or, if time prohibits, at least five minutes a day. It's an inner-prosperity aerobics workout.
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