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The Conscious Evolution of Healing, Part 2
The idea of transmission is very important in the Chinese medical classics. According to author Claude Larre, the ancient Chinese were highly interested in the connection between things. Nothing was looked at as an isolated entity.
Cell Health (Part 2)
Dr. Barsten, your book is about restoring "cell vitality." Can you briefly define the term? Cell vitality is more than the mere absence of symptoms or pathology, but optimum structural, physiological and energetic health.
Unlevel Pelvis in the High-School Athlete: Exploring Causes and Effects
The unlevel pelvis is all too common in the high-school athlete and if not detected, will likely cause a lifetime of musculoskeletal issues. Any provider who doesn't look for this common finding is missing critical information.
Connecting the Dots
In 2002, I published a book on patient examination procedures that included information on the procedural coding of the recommended examinations. The book should have been published in 2000, but I had trouble finding a publisher. Why?
Acupuncture and Homeopathy: Bioenergetic Brothers
Acupuncture and homeopathy share an important healing principle: bioenergetics. "Bio" means "life," so bioenergetics is literally "life energy."
Neuroscience: Where Western Medicine and Chinese Medicine Can Come Together
The recent advances in neuroscience are truly incredible. With this expansion of scientific knowledge, I would like to see even more research into the neuroscientific basic of acupuncture and Chinese Medicine.
Help Your Parents Stay Engaged
As much as parents may wish it were so, children do not come with an instruction manual. There's no "how to" that can be followed and no two children are alike, so what works with one generally won't work with the next.
Mind-Body in Motion
A central goal of low back pain treatment involves the correction of dysfunctional movement patterns believed to be responsible for spinal overload.
It might have been a miserable start to the day in the heart of downtown San Diego. A heavy rain had soaked the large homeless population congregating near the intersection of Third Avenue and Ash Street as they waited for a free breakfast to be served at the First Lutheran Church on the corner.
Put the Social Back Into Social Media
Social media is more than a passing fad, it is definitely here to stay. Social media apps and channels of distribution may evolve, but the concept of social media is now big business and a part of all our lives.
News in Brief
An Encouraging Sign at Palmer; NBCE Announces Retirement of Longtime Director of Testing.
Are You Really a Healthy Eater?
I always giggle a little bit (to myself) when someone comes into my office and informs me that they are a healthy eater. What exactly does that mean? Does that mean they eat sugar in moderation? And what's that, exactly?
Reflections: The Art of Teaching Asian Medicine
Over the past three decades, my global workshops have been translated into German, Swiss German, French, Romansch, Spanish, Lithuanian and Xhosa. Time to offer you new teachers a few tips!
The Top Seven Website Mistakes Clinics Make
The majority of acupuncture clinics finally have a website for their business. Having a website is crucial for being found online through Google, Facebook and review sites like Yelp.
It's Time to Create a Strong Acupuncture Footprint
Footprints in the sand. Footprints in the snow. Where do these footprints go? Some are big, some are small, but footprints are made by all.
Finding Balance in the Clinic
This past December, I celebrated 11 years in practice. I seriously don't know where the time went. I feel beyond blessed and grateful to be practicing our profound and beautiful medicine and to be helping guide my patients restore a state of optimal health.
Old TCM Sayings: Treat the Front to Treat the Back
Chinese medicine college was, and always will be, a memorable time. It was a time of massive personal and professional growth.
Let's Speak With One Voice in 2015
For the longest time, the chiropractic profession has attempted to achieve some form of unity. On a political level, this was characterized by an ultimately unsuccessful two-year merger effort between ACA and ICA leadership from 1986-1988.
The CDC came out with a report in March 2013 that suggests 1 in 50 children will be diagnosed somewhere on the autism spectrum – significantly higher than the 1 in 86 figure that came out in 2007. What does this mean moving forward, particularly for children?
Case Histories from Bali: Treating Balinese Chidren with TCB and Shonishin
When I moved to the island of Bali in 2005, I offered my services in Bumi Sehat, which means Healthy Mother Earth, a free birthing center for poor and disadvantaged local women located in Ubud.
April, 2008, Vol. 08, Issue 04
Five Fundamentals for Building Your Massage Business, Part 2
By Cary Bayer
In the previous installment of this column, we explored four of the first five fundamental S's of success: knowledge of self, strategy, serenity and sales effectiveness. In this article, we'll examine the fifth and final S - successful thinking.
Success is a function of our attitude. As positive-thinking guru Norman Vincent Peale said, "Change your thoughts and you change your world." You ate 20,000 meals at your parents' dining room table, where money was a major topic of conversation. You learned many limited ideas there, as if they were reality.
Here are some common ones: There isn't enough money because it doesn't grow on trees. Money is dirty and corrupts. Rich people are greedy, poor people are selfless. You have to do things you don't like to get money. You won't get paid much to do what you love. Money is for men. Life is a struggle.
There are three other biggies. The first is so universal - I've seen it in students from all over the world. Don't take money from strangers. Don't take money from family. Don't take money from friends. So I ask, who is left? Known enemies?
That's why you've turned bosses, clients or customers into known enemies. But don't despair. I have a technique to transform limiting beliefs. First, I want to show you how to receive, because parental training about receiving money has confused the act of receiving itself. It's important for LMTs - masters at giving - to learn how to receive. You voluntarily massage politicians, marathoners and Olympians. Now it's time to master receiving.
If it's difficult receiving appreciation, it's also difficult receiving money. In order to prosper, you need to master receiving money. This technique starts by acknowledging someone for a minute:
And so on. After a minute, have the client acknowledge you.
If the client acknowledges your dress, please don't say, "This old thing," or "I got it at Marshalls for 60 percent off." You'll be amazed at how powerful this technique is. Two minutes daily will increase your self-esteem and teach you how to receive appreciation.
Greater self-worth creates greater net worth. You may want peace of mind more than a piece of Berkshire Hathaway, a prominent financial company, but you can have both. You're more effective when not worrying about how to pay this month's mortgage. Confidence and competence create success. I can't teach you competence with massage techniques, but I can teach you confidence. When confidence is overwhelming, others want to be around you, want what you have and will pay you for it.
Babies emanate positive energy. That's one reason you love their presence. Material success - in the Olympics, business or massage - depends on your inner success. I've seen many talented massage therapists quit because they couldn't support themselves. That's a real loss for the world and for them. I don't want that to happen to you.
Basketball's greatest player of all time, Michael Jordan, wouldn't have achieved magnificence on the court or hundreds of millions of dollars in endorsements if he couldn't "go inside," he said, to a place deep within himself and connect with what he called the "truth" of who he was.
To master the inner life, transform negative thinking in your conscious and subconscious minds. "If the subconscious is not 100 percent in sync with the conscious mind, success is not going to happen," said Eddie Murphy.
Athletes succeed on playing fields because they master the mental field. This applies to being the world's greatest bodybuilder just as it does for being California's governor. As Arnold Schwarzenegger said, "The mind is the limit. As long as the mind can envision the fact that you can do something, you can do it as long as you really believe 100 percent."
If you want success as a massage therapist, think successfully and eliminate negative thoughts. Johnny Mercer wrote, "You've got to accentuate the positive. Eliminate the negative. Latch on to the affirmative. Don't mess with Mr. In-between."
This technique creates powerful transformation. Think the thought: "I can prosper and succeed as a massage therapist." Then record the first negative thought that disagrees with it. Let's say that thought is, "Massage therapists don't make much money." We're not focusing on the negative, we're releasing it. These thoughts live in the subconscious.
"A" invokes a reality you desire. "B" releases an obstacle preventing the thought from becoming reality. The next step transforms the limited obstacle with a new affirmation geared specifically to present a larger reality to the smaller part of your mind. Here's a good one: "I'm so magnetic to clients that my schedule is always full."
It's difficult to prosper as a massage therapist when you don't think you can, don't deserve to, aren't smart enough, or aren't talented or experienced enough. Why should people flock to you if you don't think they should? When you're clear you deserve to prosper, think you can, and are smart, talented and skilled enough to, your chances rise significantly.I call this the ABC's of transformation because in three steps it introduces success, eliminates failure in your thinking, and reintroduces success to parts of the mind that entertained failure. We just did one repetition; do 10 daily or, if time prohibits, at least five minutes a day. It's an inner-prosperity aerobics workout.
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