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Body and Skin Rejuvenation Through Inner Balance, Equals Outer Beauty
First of all, I will draw a line in the sand. You know how there is often a big divide between the methods of Western medicine and holistic or energy medicine?
The McGill Approach to the Lower Back (Part 1)
Stuart McGill, PhD, brings a unique combination of tools to the table. He is a scientist who also functions as a clinician. He describes himself as a medical consultant who is referred challenging patients. He is both evidence based and practical.
Giving Chiropractic Some Much-Needed PR
Public relations has not always been the chiropractic profession's strong suit, a shortcoming that has subjected the profession to countless attacks on its legitimacy and seemingly perpetual confusion among the public and the health care world as to the skills and services doctors of chiropractic provide.
Treating Our Veterans with PTSD
As July 4th, Memorial Day and Veterans Day continue to pass year in and year out, we honor our veterans from past wars with parades, BBQs and a day off from work, but our veterans live daily with the spiritual scars of war.
The Power of Positioning
During the evening, I like to relax while either reading a book or watching television. One of my shows, NCIS, has the main character always drinking coffee. Everyone knows it is a Venti from Starbucks because of its distinctive color and style.
MUIH Launches Doctoral Degree Programs
Maryland University of Integrative Health recently announce it will now offer doctoral degrees.
Alcohol Consumption Strongly Linked to Risk of Colorectal Cancer
Alcohol intake is one of the primary risk factors for many human cancers, and is strongly associated with cancers of the oral cavity, pharynx, larynx, esophagus, liver, breast, and notably, the colon and rectum.
"Turn, Turn, Turn"
Many people are credited with saying, "If you remember the '60s, you really weren't there." Given the fact I didn't become a teenager until 1970, I actually do remember the '60s (or at least part of it). And as a child of the '60s, I was, of course, influenced by the music.
Cultivating Our National Strength
The time has come to seriously look at the state of this profession and its influence in the U.S. Where are we? What has happened? Where do we go from here?
Correcting Dysfunctional Movement Patterns – Is Local Treatment Enough?
It is widely believed that mechanical, non-traumatic back pain is largely related to dysfunctional or compensatory movement patterns the body has adopted over time.
News in Brief
Foundation for Chiropractic Progress Enrolls Second Group Member; Focus on Chiropractic Education at WFC-ACC Conference in Miami; Are You Ready for Another "Have-a-Heart" Campaign?
The Power of Vitamin K
You may have heard rumblings in recent years that vitamin K helps reduce the risk of osteoporosis and cardiovascular disease, and is administered intravenously by some integrative medical doctors who combine it with high-dose vitamin C in cancer treatment.
What TCM Never Had to Deal With
You probably started getting a sense of it when you were in school. The professors would talk about diabetes as "wasting-and-thirsting disease" and you had a thought that you didn't know anyone who was wasting away in any way, shape or form.
Yo San University Celebrates, Supports Community Clinic
Yo San University of Traditional Chinese Medicine recently celebrated 25 years of teaching excellence and serving its community by awarding actor Pierce Brosnan the Robert Graham Visionary Award and raising money for its popular community clinic.
Finders Keepers: The Secret to Relationship-Based Marketing
Becoming a successful practitioner has less to do with what you learned in school, and more to do with your ability to find new patients and keep them!
Hon Lee: Scholar, Warrior, Spy, Teacher and Healer
It was fun. Growing up in New York's Chinatown was like living in a Chinese village that had been transplanted to a five square block area in southern Manhattan. The thing I liked most about the city, and still do, is it's rich cultural diversity.
The Art of Observation
How many of us spend time just watching our clients walk, climb in and out of cars, rise from a chair or navigate a flight of stairs? Spontaneity is the key. Along with a subtle ability to observe without the client knowing or being made to feel like a lab rat.
Behavior as Symptoms of Energetic Imbalance
Karen and Josh said they wanted me to help them fix their marriage. That is why they were sitting on the couch in front of me, complaining about each other. She was too domineering, he said, overly controlling and bossy.
Eight Ways to Help Manage Your Content
You have just completed your last session for the day, checked your voice mail and emailed a new patient about their appointment, but something it gnawing at you, something you just can't quite put your finger it on.
Drug War Rages in Wisconsin
Based on its actions over the past 15 years (review the sidebar in the app version of this article), controversy and the Wisconsin Chiropractic Association seem to go hand in hand.
Ancient Chinese Medicine Meets Modern Anatomy Dissection
Have you ever thought it would be beneficial to explore under the skin and examine qi deficiencies in every system of the body? Would you like to see traditional Chinese medicine diagnosis patterns as they relate to western biomedical symptoms and conditions?
April, 2008, Vol. 08, Issue 04
Five Fundamentals for Building Your Massage Business, Part 2
By Cary Bayer
In the previous installment of this column, we explored four of the first five fundamental S's of success: knowledge of self, strategy, serenity and sales effectiveness. In this article, we'll examine the fifth and final S - successful thinking.
Success is a function of our attitude. As positive-thinking guru Norman Vincent Peale said, "Change your thoughts and you change your world." You ate 20,000 meals at your parents' dining room table, where money was a major topic of conversation. You learned many limited ideas there, as if they were reality.
Here are some common ones: There isn't enough money because it doesn't grow on trees. Money is dirty and corrupts. Rich people are greedy, poor people are selfless. You have to do things you don't like to get money. You won't get paid much to do what you love. Money is for men. Life is a struggle.
There are three other biggies. The first is so universal - I've seen it in students from all over the world. Don't take money from strangers. Don't take money from family. Don't take money from friends. So I ask, who is left? Known enemies?
That's why you've turned bosses, clients or customers into known enemies. But don't despair. I have a technique to transform limiting beliefs. First, I want to show you how to receive, because parental training about receiving money has confused the act of receiving itself. It's important for LMTs - masters at giving - to learn how to receive. You voluntarily massage politicians, marathoners and Olympians. Now it's time to master receiving.
If it's difficult receiving appreciation, it's also difficult receiving money. In order to prosper, you need to master receiving money. This technique starts by acknowledging someone for a minute:
And so on. After a minute, have the client acknowledge you.
If the client acknowledges your dress, please don't say, "This old thing," or "I got it at Marshalls for 60 percent off." You'll be amazed at how powerful this technique is. Two minutes daily will increase your self-esteem and teach you how to receive appreciation.
Greater self-worth creates greater net worth. You may want peace of mind more than a piece of Berkshire Hathaway, a prominent financial company, but you can have both. You're more effective when not worrying about how to pay this month's mortgage. Confidence and competence create success. I can't teach you competence with massage techniques, but I can teach you confidence. When confidence is overwhelming, others want to be around you, want what you have and will pay you for it.
Babies emanate positive energy. That's one reason you love their presence. Material success - in the Olympics, business or massage - depends on your inner success. I've seen many talented massage therapists quit because they couldn't support themselves. That's a real loss for the world and for them. I don't want that to happen to you.
Basketball's greatest player of all time, Michael Jordan, wouldn't have achieved magnificence on the court or hundreds of millions of dollars in endorsements if he couldn't "go inside," he said, to a place deep within himself and connect with what he called the "truth" of who he was.
To master the inner life, transform negative thinking in your conscious and subconscious minds. "If the subconscious is not 100 percent in sync with the conscious mind, success is not going to happen," said Eddie Murphy.
Athletes succeed on playing fields because they master the mental field. This applies to being the world's greatest bodybuilder just as it does for being California's governor. As Arnold Schwarzenegger said, "The mind is the limit. As long as the mind can envision the fact that you can do something, you can do it as long as you really believe 100 percent."
If you want success as a massage therapist, think successfully and eliminate negative thoughts. Johnny Mercer wrote, "You've got to accentuate the positive. Eliminate the negative. Latch on to the affirmative. Don't mess with Mr. In-between."
This technique creates powerful transformation. Think the thought: "I can prosper and succeed as a massage therapist." Then record the first negative thought that disagrees with it. Let's say that thought is, "Massage therapists don't make much money." We're not focusing on the negative, we're releasing it. These thoughts live in the subconscious.
"A" invokes a reality you desire. "B" releases an obstacle preventing the thought from becoming reality. The next step transforms the limited obstacle with a new affirmation geared specifically to present a larger reality to the smaller part of your mind. Here's a good one: "I'm so magnetic to clients that my schedule is always full."
It's difficult to prosper as a massage therapist when you don't think you can, don't deserve to, aren't smart enough, or aren't talented or experienced enough. Why should people flock to you if you don't think they should? When you're clear you deserve to prosper, think you can, and are smart, talented and skilled enough to, your chances rise significantly.I call this the ABC's of transformation because in three steps it introduces success, eliminates failure in your thinking, and reintroduces success to parts of the mind that entertained failure. We just did one repetition; do 10 daily or, if time prohibits, at least five minutes a day. It's an inner-prosperity aerobics workout.
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