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Energy: For Life and For Death
Energy is a deep topic in Traditional Chinese Medicine. Qi is understood to underlie all of existence, animated or not, and the qi of the living is studied with special attention.
Essentials of Assessment: The Squat
The squat is a simple, fast and functional tool to evaluate patient symmetry and function. As simple and easy as it is to implement, it can yield considerable amounts of valuable, clinically relevant information.
Filling the Gap: The Role of Alternative Practitioners in a Broken Health Care System
I have been asked many times what got me into alternative medicine. My answer is simple: I want to truly help and make a difference in people's health.
The Art of Listening
One of the most important clinical concepts for me was voiced by the legendary physician William Osler. "Listen to your patient, he/she is telling you the diagnosis." After treating literally thousands of patients, it can become almost second nature to quickly discover clues which reveal the underlying diagnosis.
Transparency is Key at ASA First Annual Meeting
On March 4th and 5th the American Society of Acupuncturists (ASA) held a successful first annual meeting in Albuquerque, New Mexico.
Recording and Appropriate Billing of Timed Physical Medicine Services
There is a common misunderstanding about timed therapy services and although you do have some knowledge of timed service documentation, based on your comment on the 8-minute rule, your understanding is correct, but incomplete.
Vitamin D Fails to Help Knee OA? The Proper Perspective
The March 8, 2016 issue of JAMA includes a study about vitamin D supplementation for osteoarthritis of the knee. This is a really weird study.
Constructing Our Reality: The Primary Channels and Perception, Part 1
My favorite topic of discussion within Chinese medicine is the acupuncture channel systems. First of all, each of us have them. They are part of our bodies; not something external to us. To learn about the acupuncture channels is to learn about ourselves.
The Power of Eccentric Exercise: Hamstring Injury Prevention and Rehab
For almost 20 years, I've worked with professional athletes who make a living by running really fast. It goes without saying that hamstring injury (HSI) prevention and rehabilitation is a big part of what they expect from a sports chiropractor.
Roots in the Community, Branches Far Beyond
The Jung Tao School of Classical Chinese Medicine (JTS) was founded in 1998 by Sean Christian Marshall in Sugar Grove, North Carolina, a small community near Boone in the state's westernmost mountains.
An Interview with Amanda Shayle
JW: Can you share with us some of your history and how you became an acupuncturist? What did you do prior to becoming an acupuncturist? Where did you go to school?
Business Lesson #1: Adapt or Else
My wife and I recently enjoyed an excellent meal at a restaurant recommended by some friends. We often have concerns about restaurant recommendations, as many have been disappointing.
How to Find and Fix TL Nerve Impingements
The thoracolumbar junction (TLJ) and the peripheral sensory nerves that exit from it are frequent, important and rarely recognized sources of lower back, pelvic and hip pain. Let's outline a clear exam protocol for diagnosing the problem.
Health and Wellness Partnership
Yo San University of Traditional Chinese Medicine and The Wellness Center at the LAC + USC Historic General Hospital recently joined forces to extend care to the residents of Boyle Heights area of Los Angeles.
Building Relationships and Referral Networks with Allopathic Practitioners
Dr. Doug, an orthopedist of 20 years, had heard stories from patients who tried acupuncture. While he was able to address many of their complaints effectively, some appeared to gain additional benefit when their care included TCM.
The Rest of the Patient Story
I've written previously about allowing a patient to tell you their story – about taking the time to listen and engage all the aspects of their case history, the injury in question, and the related issues.
Musculoskeletal Disorders Take Center Stage
Looking for the latest on the musculoskeletal pain epidemic and the increasing premium placed on preventive strategies including chiropractic? Check out The Impact of Musculoskeletal Disorders on Americans – Opportunities for Action.
News in Brief
A Moment of Silence for Dr. Stephen Press; New ACA President Elected; F4CP Offers New MemBership Benefit.
The IME System: A Current Public Health Risk and Solutions That Are Working
I strongly believe in the independent medical examination (IME) system. There are far too many doctors in every profession who are not following E&M protocols and never claim MMI (maximum medical improvement) has occurred for their patients, which has caused financial stress for many private and public carriers.
Asking Patients the Right Questions
When was the last time you asked a patient a question? Maybe 30 seconds ago? But, are you asking the right questions to elicit valuable and useful information? As a healthcare provider, you've likely spent hundreds of hours learning to ask the right questions to gather critical health information from your patients.
The Value of Melatonin in Breast Cancer Prevention and Adjunctive Treatment
Although melatonin (MLT) is best known for its sleep-aid properties and as a natural remedy to prevent jet lag, extensive experimental studies suggest it possesses anticancer activity through several biological mechanisms.
July, 2007, Vol. 07, Issue 07
Healing Hands, Inquiring Mouth
By Cary Bayer
Last summer, I was at the U.S. Open tournament in New York as Andre Agassi, who had announced his retirement from tennis at the event's conclusion, played fourth-seeded Marcos Baghdatis.Since the tournament is single elimination, this match could have been the American legend's last. The stadium rocked with excitement. As the match proceeded, it didn't seem the old warrior could beat this young stud.
But then, suddenly - perhaps due to pressure - Baghdatis began cramping. He called for the 10-minute injury timeout players are allowed and the trainer massaged his thigh. The treatment helped but it cramped again later in the match. Since the rules prevent players from getting additional massage on the same injury, this otherwise fast athlete hobbled around on the court in tremendous pain.
He eventually would lose to Agassi, largely because of an injury that was in desperate need of massage. Seeing this warrior giving everything he had while his body was unable to cooperate was painful to watch. All he needed was some continuous massage.
Baghdatis' pain was a perfect metaphor; it reminded me of all the tens of millions of people who walk around every day in pain and in desperate need of massage. Many are too proud to ask for support; some too macho to surrender themselves to the healing touch of your hands.
That's where your mouth comes into play. Mouths usually play little role - if any - in a massage. However, once you discover verbally what your client needs for that particular treatment, the session gets underway. But sometimes your future client needs the help of your mouth before they can get the help of your hands. Be proactive and ask if they would like a massage. It's a perfectly innocent thing to do. You might help prevent someone from "hobbling" around with pain and stress buried deep within the tissues and muscles of their aching body.
Most massage therapists, understandably, focus their time and money in developing their talent for use once they get a client onto their table. But succeeding as a massage therapist also requires getting them to your table. Allow me to tell you about a television commercial that's probably more than 40 years old but sheds a great deal of light on this matter.
I discovered this ancient TV spot when I worked in a previous lifetime at the great New York advertising agency Doyle Dane Bernbach. The commercial opens on a heavy virgin snow. It's about 5 a.m., and all is silent. The only sound you hear is a voiceover asking, "Did you ever wonder how the driver of the snowplow gets to the snowplow?" Then you see a man leave his home, start up his Volkswagen Beetle, navigate through the heavy accumulation and get out of the VW into a parked snowplow. Enough said. That commercial ran with little media backing so it's doubtful you ever saw it unless you watched a TV special about legendary commercials. I've found many people who've seen it just once, yet still remember it. That's because of the power of the provocative question it asks.
If we apply that insight to the marketing of a massage therapist, a paraphrasing voiceover might ask, "Did you ever wonder how the master of the massage table gets their clients to the massage table?"
Word-of-Mouth and Words From Mouth
Motion picture studios spend tens of millions of dollars producing a film, then sometimes nearly as much just to market it. It costs a lot to produce great theatrical previews, television commercials, print ads and so forth. And publicity to get the stars on The Today Show, The Tonight Show and everywhere else they can is expensive, too. While all of this is, no doubt, hugely important, nothing - not even outstanding reviews from the critics - affects a film's success as much as word-of-mouth from those who have seen it talking about it to those who have not.
As massage therapists, you're often encouraged by some consultants to spend time and money developing Web sites and ads (though not by me), write columns (only sometimes by me) and create newsletters (this one I agree with). But none of these are ever as important as the recommendations that come out of the mouths of your clients.
Let me say a little about the words that could come out of your mouth as well. The most effective ones are a simple question like, "Would you like to schedule a (fill in your favorite adjective here) massage?" Each therapist's adjective may vary; some opt for healing or relaxing, others for therapeutic, rejuvenating and so forth. Find the one that best describes your work and get used to speaking it.
Therapists who shy away from asking this simple question when they're in conversation about their work usually do so for two basic reasons: 1) they fear the person will say no, or 2) they fear they will be rejected. While it's true that a possible client might say "no," it's better to hear a bunch of "no's" than never ask the question at all. Why? If you hear a lot of "no's," you've been asking a lot more people than you usually do. That means you'll also hear a lot more "yes" responses. And that means you're getting a whole bunch of new clients. Disregard the negative and focus on the positive. And remember the famous Japanese proverb: "Fall down seven times, get up eight."
I'd like to offer a few words of clarification concerning the fear of being personally rejected. Nobody who rejects your offer for a massage is rejecting you; they're rejecting a massage - at least for now. When you take yourself out of the equation, your emotions don't have to be hurt and that's incredibly freeing. It's just a matter of changing the context in which you hold the asking of this question. If the context is that you're rejected each time you ask if someone wants a massage, then each time your adrenaline will flow and your self worth will be at risk. But once you keep your emotions out of it, there's simply a question - does this person want to get massaged? You have nothing to do with it. It's their choice - and often, what they wants is a massage from you.
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