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Chronic heightened emotional states create a perfect breeding ground for illness. Through my practice I noted the increasingly obvious relationship between one's mental focus on negative thinking, emotions, resistance to experiencing feelings and disease.
Finders Keepers: The Secret to Relationship-Based Marketing
Becoming a successful practitioner has less to do with what you learned in school, and more to do with your ability to find new patients and keep them!
The Bottom Line ... From a Surgeon Who Knows
Regardless of individual relationships between providers, there continues to be a type of Hatfield-McCoy feud between the philosophies of medicine and chiropractic, particularly when it comes to musculoskeletal ailments.
Correcting Dysfunctional Movement Patterns – Is Local Treatment Enough?
It is widely believed that mechanical, non-traumatic back pain is largely related to dysfunctional or compensatory movement patterns the body has adopted over time.
It Pays to be a Foodie
If there is an inner foodie in you, just waiting to burst out—this article is for you! Do you want to know how I know? I'm that girl. My middle name might as well be "Foodie." I love food! And if my patients are any indication, many of them do as well.
Chinese Medicine: The Natural Way to Children's Wellness
As a child, I did not like going to the doctor. For the most part, when I had to go I wasn't feeling good to begin with, and I was heading into a sterile environment to be awkwardly probed by a man in a white coat for a very short, impersonal period of time.
Drug War Rages in Wisconsin
Based on its actions over the past 15 years (review the sidebar in the app version of this article), controversy and the Wisconsin Chiropractic Association seem to go hand in hand.
Alcohol Consumption Strongly Linked to Risk of Colorectal Cancer
Alcohol intake is one of the primary risk factors for many human cancers, and is strongly associated with cancers of the oral cavity, pharynx, larynx, esophagus, liver, breast, and notably, the colon and rectum.
The Power of Mu Xiang to Treat Irritable Bowel Disease
Bloating and gas pain is something that everyone has had to deal with at one point or another; however, that's usually reserved for holiday dinners and other large gatherings.
Implications of Section 2706: The Non-Discrimination Provision Survey
In late April 2014, NCCAOM diplomates received an email survey with the subject line: "End discrimination against acupuncturists" polling CAM practitioners for a Request for Information from the Department of Health and Human Services, released in mid-March.
Treating Chronic Depression with Acupressure
In Traditional Chinese Medicine there already exists a comprehensive theory linking the body and mind.
Treating Menopausal Women in Your Practice
I love what I do for a living. It's a great way to trade health for bread. And no topic of health, with the right bedside manner, is taboo.
The McGill Approach to the Lower Back (Part 1)
Stuart McGill, PhD, brings a unique combination of tools to the table. He is a scientist who also functions as a clinician. He describes himself as a medical consultant who is referred challenging patients. He is both evidence based and practical.
The Acupuncture Now Foundation: What Our Profession Needs
Although acupuncture is growing in popularity it continues to be underutilized due to misunderstandings about its true potential. Only a fraction of those who could be helped by acupuncture know enough to seek it out.
Micro-Needle Dermal Roller Use in the Treatment Room
Recently micro-needle dermal rollers have been getting a lot of media attention. As a practitioner who specializes in acupuncture facial rejuvenation, I know that skin needling with a dermal roller (also known as collagen induction therapy), promotes the natural reproduction of collagen and elastin, making the skin feel smoother and tighter.
Peer Points: Promoting TCM Knowledge
When Elaine Wolf Komarow, LAc, received her first acupuncture treatment in 1989, she said it changed her life. "I felt more aware, calmer, and happier. I was so fascinated by the changes that I began to learn everything I could about the underlying philosophy of Chinese medicine," said Komarow.
Giving Chiropractic Some Much-Needed PR
Public relations has not always been the chiropractic profession's strong suit, a shortcoming that has subjected the profession to countless attacks on its legitimacy and seemingly perpetual confusion among the public and the health care world as to the skills and services doctors of chiropractic provide.
Acupuncture Detox as Part of Drug Rehabilitation
In the U.S., more than 2,000 alcohol and drug rehabilitation programs have added ear acupuncture to their practice. The development of the protocol was determined by Lincoln Hospital as it delivered 100 acupuncture treatments daily.
News in Brief
Foundation for Chiropractic Progress Enrolls Second Group Member; Focus on Chiropractic Education at WFC-ACC Conference in Miami; Are You Ready for Another "Have-a-Heart" Campaign?
"Turn, Turn, Turn"
Many people are credited with saying, "If you remember the '60s, you really weren't there." Given the fact I didn't become a teenager until 1970, I actually do remember the '60s (or at least part of it). And as a child of the '60s, I was, of course, influenced by the music.
Inspire Your Patients to Make Healthy Choices
Have you tried to get your patients to change their eating habits or their diet and couldn't get them to succeed? Were they confused and unsure of what the right thing was to eat? You are not alone!
Meat in the Middle
Have you ever wondered what's the truth about meat? Is it really as bad as many people think?
Five Element Acupuncture Can Enhance Your Practice
For eight years I have been teaching and supervising TCM students at an acupuncture college in Colorado, in Five Element acupuncture.
Following the Thinking of the Classics
I have heard about the "best time of day" to carry out certain examinations or therapies. For example, I remember making a note years ago that early morning is the best time to take someone's pulses.
Introduce Your Patients to Collagen Induction Therapy
Cutaneous (skin) aging generally occurs from either intrinsic or extrinsic processes. Intrinsic aging results from natural skin tissue damage and degeneration.
July, 2007, Vol. 07, Issue 07
Healing Hands, Inquiring Mouth
By Cary Bayer
Last summer, I was at the U.S. Open tournament in New York as Andre Agassi, who had announced his retirement from tennis at the event's conclusion, played fourth-seeded Marcos Baghdatis.Since the tournament is single elimination, this match could have been the American legend's last. The stadium rocked with excitement. As the match proceeded, it didn't seem the old warrior could beat this young stud.
But then, suddenly - perhaps due to pressure - Baghdatis began cramping. He called for the 10-minute injury timeout players are allowed and the trainer massaged his thigh. The treatment helped but it cramped again later in the match. Since the rules prevent players from getting additional massage on the same injury, this otherwise fast athlete hobbled around on the court in tremendous pain.
He eventually would lose to Agassi, largely because of an injury that was in desperate need of massage. Seeing this warrior giving everything he had while his body was unable to cooperate was painful to watch. All he needed was some continuous massage.
Baghdatis' pain was a perfect metaphor; it reminded me of all the tens of millions of people who walk around every day in pain and in desperate need of massage. Many are too proud to ask for support; some too macho to surrender themselves to the healing touch of your hands.
That's where your mouth comes into play. Mouths usually play little role - if any - in a massage. However, once you discover verbally what your client needs for that particular treatment, the session gets underway. But sometimes your future client needs the help of your mouth before they can get the help of your hands. Be proactive and ask if they would like a massage. It's a perfectly innocent thing to do. You might help prevent someone from "hobbling" around with pain and stress buried deep within the tissues and muscles of their aching body.
Most massage therapists, understandably, focus their time and money in developing their talent for use once they get a client onto their table. But succeeding as a massage therapist also requires getting them to your table. Allow me to tell you about a television commercial that's probably more than 40 years old but sheds a great deal of light on this matter.
I discovered this ancient TV spot when I worked in a previous lifetime at the great New York advertising agency Doyle Dane Bernbach. The commercial opens on a heavy virgin snow. It's about 5 a.m., and all is silent. The only sound you hear is a voiceover asking, "Did you ever wonder how the driver of the snowplow gets to the snowplow?" Then you see a man leave his home, start up his Volkswagen Beetle, navigate through the heavy accumulation and get out of the VW into a parked snowplow. Enough said. That commercial ran with little media backing so it's doubtful you ever saw it unless you watched a TV special about legendary commercials. I've found many people who've seen it just once, yet still remember it. That's because of the power of the provocative question it asks.
If we apply that insight to the marketing of a massage therapist, a paraphrasing voiceover might ask, "Did you ever wonder how the master of the massage table gets their clients to the massage table?"
Word-of-Mouth and Words From Mouth
Motion picture studios spend tens of millions of dollars producing a film, then sometimes nearly as much just to market it. It costs a lot to produce great theatrical previews, television commercials, print ads and so forth. And publicity to get the stars on The Today Show, The Tonight Show and everywhere else they can is expensive, too. While all of this is, no doubt, hugely important, nothing - not even outstanding reviews from the critics - affects a film's success as much as word-of-mouth from those who have seen it talking about it to those who have not.
As massage therapists, you're often encouraged by some consultants to spend time and money developing Web sites and ads (though not by me), write columns (only sometimes by me) and create newsletters (this one I agree with). But none of these are ever as important as the recommendations that come out of the mouths of your clients.
Let me say a little about the words that could come out of your mouth as well. The most effective ones are a simple question like, "Would you like to schedule a (fill in your favorite adjective here) massage?" Each therapist's adjective may vary; some opt for healing or relaxing, others for therapeutic, rejuvenating and so forth. Find the one that best describes your work and get used to speaking it.
Therapists who shy away from asking this simple question when they're in conversation about their work usually do so for two basic reasons: 1) they fear the person will say no, or 2) they fear they will be rejected. While it's true that a possible client might say "no," it's better to hear a bunch of "no's" than never ask the question at all. Why? If you hear a lot of "no's," you've been asking a lot more people than you usually do. That means you'll also hear a lot more "yes" responses. And that means you're getting a whole bunch of new clients. Disregard the negative and focus on the positive. And remember the famous Japanese proverb: "Fall down seven times, get up eight."
I'd like to offer a few words of clarification concerning the fear of being personally rejected. Nobody who rejects your offer for a massage is rejecting you; they're rejecting a massage - at least for now. When you take yourself out of the equation, your emotions don't have to be hurt and that's incredibly freeing. It's just a matter of changing the context in which you hold the asking of this question. If the context is that you're rejected each time you ask if someone wants a massage, then each time your adrenaline will flow and your self worth will be at risk. But once you keep your emotions out of it, there's simply a question - does this person want to get massaged? You have nothing to do with it. It's their choice - and often, what they wants is a massage from you.
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