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The Way We Are Designed: A Conversation with Gil Hedley, PhD
I was first introduced to the work of Gil Hedley by Tom DiFerdinando. He gifted me Gil's DVD series.
The Dietary Supplement Research Dilemma
I do not care what the truth is, one way or another; I just want to know it. And when it comes to dietary supplements, the truth can be hard to find for a number of reasons.
Turning a Blind Eye to History – and Reality
The American Medical Association is taking the Supreme Court's Feb. 25, 2015 decision exactly as it always does – by turning a blind eye to history, legal precedent and reality.
Low Back Pain in Professional Golf: A Common Muscular Relationship
Every sport creates its own unique demands on the body. Some sports require such a myriad of body positions that assessing pathology is often difficult and unpredictable.
There Really is No Room for Sexism
Recently, Matteo* (a transgender male) approached me during a break in an advanced shiatsu class in Berlin where he was one of two men in a group of 20 women. "Pamela. Don't forget to remind the translator to include male endings."
Functional Hip Impingement (Part 1)
Every time I sit down to write an article, I realize how much more there is to know about musculoskeletal pain. I also learn something new every time. (I want to give special thanks to Lucy Whyte Ferguson for assisting with this article.)
The Need for a New Medical Model: A Challenge for Biopsychosocial and Ecopsychologica Medicine
Chinese medicine speaks of alignment between humans, heaven and earth. It is a complex view with a focus upon relationship. These are comprehensive ideas with no specific terms in contemporary medical practice.
A Well-Kept Secret: 5 Element Acupuncture, Part II
Supervising acupuncture interns at a TCM college, it has always struck me how funny it is to hear the clinic manager tell the patients that the Five Element clinic specializes in treating emotions, as if patients with physical pain have no emotions!
TCM Congress in Rothenburg is Largest in Western World
In the medieval town of Rothenburg, deep set within the Bavarian countryside in Southern Germany, the TCM Kongress Rothenburg each year draws around 1.200 participants from more than 40 different countries to attend the biggest TCM conference in the Western world.
Applying the Thin Skull Principle
The "thin skull" principle, also known as the "you take your victim as you find them" principle, is a legal principle that can be summed up by the following statement.
Synergy Doesn't Happen in Silos: Acupuncture in Hospitals and Other Healthcare Settings
As acupuncture and traditional East Asian medicine continue to intersect and integrate with biomedical approaches, the conversation about integration expands and becomes richer.
Optimism = Compassion = Trust
A randomized clinical trial recently published online in JAMA Oncology examined how patients viewed their doctor based upon how the practitioner presented bad news to the patient.
An Excerpt from TCM Case Studies: Pediatrics
This excerpt is reprinted with permission from Jamie Wu. TCM Case Studies: Pediatrics was released in 2014 by People's Medical Publishing House.
Treating Beyond Pain
More often than not, when a patient presents to the office, it is for a pain complaint. Headache, neck pain, low back pain, sciatica, carpal tunnel... The pain is often the focus of the patient's mindset, and they don't often have any thought of what comes after the pain.
A View From the ER
The University of Western States has inked an innovative agreement with local nonprofit health system Legacy Health whereby UWS sports-medicine fellows can experience observational clinical rotations in emergency-room settings within the Legacy system.
Will You Be an Amplifer or a Mute?
These times are changing, and changing quickly. There have been many challenges to this profession throughout the past few years. The challenge is to talk, then talk and talk some more about this medicine.
Recreational Cannabis Use and TCM
Many people are drawn to cannabis for its effects physically, mentally and emotionally. Medically, cannabis has some legitimate uses, however the scope of this article is limited to the recreational use of cannabis.
Talking to Patients About Lumbar Facet Denervation (Medial Branch Neurotomy)
Lumbar facet denervation, more appropriately termed medial branch neurotomy (MBN), is a procedure that may be considered when patients suffer from recalcitrant non-radicular axial back and/or leg pain.
A House Divided?
The American Chiropractic Association's House of Delegates voted on 30 resolutions at its annual business meeting in Washington D.C., but two in particular took immediate center stage due to their controversial nature.
Term Limits: What's in a Word?
It was the French historian and philosopher Voltaire who once declared the Holy Roman Empire was neither holy nor Roman nor an empire.
Converting More Patients to Your Practice
In 2013 and 2014, the theme was "the money is in the list." This meant that if you had a big email list, you were really making some "cha-ching." Unfortunately, having thousands of emails doesn't equate to thousands of dollars in profit.
January, 2005, Vol. 05, Issue 01
The Best of Both Worlds
By Cary Bayer
At the end of 1987, while living in a one-bedroom Manhattan apartment, I began studying the secrets of prosperity that I now teach. As I learned how absolutely natural the experience of abundance is, an innocent desire grew within me to enjoy the best of both worlds.At that time, the best of both worlds meant a country house to go with my city domicile. By the end of the following year, I realized that goal when I bought a home in New York's Catskill Mountains in the woods of legendary Woodstock.
Some years later, as February's freezing cold became old, my shivering body suddenly became aware of a new desire: year-round delightful weather. That led me to do some inner and outer work that resulted in the purchase of an oceanfront condo in Florida the following winter (I had moved out of New York City by then.) Now, when the mercury heads south, so do I. Friends and clients in Woodstock tell me I have the best of both worlds. Come May, when scorching temperatures climb toward 100 degrees, I head for the hills (literally), and friends and clients in Florida tell me I have the best of both worlds. This column isn't about me, though; it's about how you, a massage therapist, can enjoy the best of both worlds in your life and business.
If you plan to create the best of both worlds, you might run across people who are envious. Our language, in fact, reveals this jealousy. While seeking the best, you might encounter small-minded comments like, "So, you want to have your cake and eat it too?" - "and," of course, is the operative word here. Why would anyone turn possessing cake into separate functions of having it and eating it? If you had your cake, what else would you possibly do with it if not eat it? Would you have your cake and frame it, too? Have your cake and smell it, too?
Having your cake and eating it too is a thought grounded in zero-sum game thinking; it is simply a fancy way of saying that when somebody wins somebody else has to lose. Fortunately, more progressive people in our culture have introduced a more expansive way of thinking - a different scenario that we call win/win: it is when someone wins and someone else also wins; in other words, it's the best of both worlds.
Massage Therapists Have Their Cakes and Eat Them, Too!
A number of massage therapists that I've coached have created the best of both worlds in their businesses. One incorporates two other loves into her massage career: yoga and Pilates instruction. She gives separate sessions in these modalities for massage clients whose bodies need additional flexibility after they leave her table. It's a win/win situation: Her clients get the benefits that these other methods afford, and she gets additional income while doing other work that she loves.
Another client also enjoys the best of both worlds. In her case, that means a booming massage business and weekends off. She is a mother of three who does her sessions during the day when her children are at school. She refers her overflow work to another therapist who is available on nights, Saturdays and Sundays. I've coached this client for the past two years and, during that time, inspired her first to quit her job and become a full-time massage therapist, and later to transform her practice into a business in which other therapists work for her. As a result, when she's called for an evening or weekend session, she enjoys a nice profit while someone else handles the session and she's playing with her kids. My client gets to be a mom for her kids when they're home and a successful massage entrepreneur when they're at school. She doesn't have to sacrifice her personal life for her professional life; she enjoys the best of both worlds.
A client in Florida loves delightful weather year-round, so she does what I do and heads north with the birds. Instead of enduring slow off-seasons like so many Sunshine State therapists, she has a healthy business in Massachusetts where northeasterners enjoy their summer vacations. She also avoids Florida when the mercury sizzles, opting instead for the cooler breezes up north.
A former New York client integrates two passions into her work. She loves the breathwork of rebirthing and frequently recommends it to clients on her table. They, in turn, benefit from this holistic method, while she feeds her second business. Her rebirthing practice also brings clients to her massage table. And another former client loves combining massage and essential oils. She's managed to combine these passions into integrated revenue streams. In each session, she uses the aromatherapy oils that her clients have come to love. When they ask her about the oils, she tells them what they do and asks them if they'd like to take them home; many do. Some buy them at retail prices, others sign up as distributors and join her downline. The former brings her small revenues, the latter much larger ones. These enable her to gain the passive income without having to use her hands.
Get used to having your cake and eating it too. As a life coach, I often ask my clients who desire breakthroughs what would constitute the best of both worlds in their worlds. Answer that question for yourself. Then visualize it and create a plan of action, and you can have your best of both worlds and, of course, eat it, too.
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