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Leaving Footprints on Capitol Hill: Tribute to Dr. Kenneth Luedtke (1930-2014)
It was with great sadness that I heard of the passing of Dr. Ken Luedtke.
Are You Really a Healthy Eater?
I always giggle a little bit (to myself) when someone comes into my office and informs me that they are a healthy eater. What exactly does that mean? Does that mean they eat sugar in moderation? And what's that, exactly?
Case Histories from Bali: Treating Balinese Chidren with TCB and Shonishin
When I moved to the island of Bali in 2005, I offered my services in Bumi Sehat, which means Healthy Mother Earth, a free birthing center for poor and disadvantaged local women located in Ubud.
Neuroscience: Where Western Medicine and Chinese Medicine Can Come Together
The recent advances in neuroscience are truly incredible. With this expansion of scientific knowledge, I would like to see even more research into the neuroscientific basic of acupuncture and Chinese Medicine.
Put the Social Back Into Social Media
Social media is more than a passing fad, it is definitely here to stay. Social media apps and channels of distribution may evolve, but the concept of social media is now big business and a part of all our lives.
It's Time to Create a Strong Acupuncture Footprint
Footprints in the sand. Footprints in the snow. Where do these footprints go? Some are big, some are small, but footprints are made by all.
Finding Balance in the Clinic
This past December, I celebrated 11 years in practice. I seriously don't know where the time went. I feel beyond blessed and grateful to be practicing our profound and beautiful medicine and to be helping guide my patients restore a state of optimal health.
Let's Speak With One Voice in 2015
For the longest time, the chiropractic profession has attempted to achieve some form of unity. On a political level, this was characterized by an ultimately unsuccessful two-year merger effort between ACA and ICA leadership from 1986-1988.
Help Your Parents Stay Engaged
As much as parents may wish it were so, children do not come with an instruction manual. There's no "how to" that can be followed and no two children are alike, so what works with one generally won't work with the next.
Connecting the Dots
In 2002, I published a book on patient examination procedures that included information on the procedural coding of the recommended examinations. The book should have been published in 2000, but I had trouble finding a publisher. Why?
News in Brief
An Encouraging Sign at Palmer; NBCE Announces Retirement of Longtime Director of Testing.
Unlevel Pelvis in the High-School Athlete: Exploring Causes and Effects
The unlevel pelvis is all too common in the high-school athlete and if not detected, will likely cause a lifetime of musculoskeletal issues. Any provider who doesn't look for this common finding is missing critical information.
Mind-Body in Motion
A central goal of low back pain treatment involves the correction of dysfunctional movement patterns believed to be responsible for spinal overload.
Reflections: The Art of Teaching Asian Medicine
Over the past three decades, my global workshops have been translated into German, Swiss German, French, Romansch, Spanish, Lithuanian and Xhosa. Time to offer you new teachers a few tips!
The CDC came out with a report in March 2013 that suggests 1 in 50 children will be diagnosed somewhere on the autism spectrum – significantly higher than the 1 in 86 figure that came out in 2007. What does this mean moving forward, particularly for children?
Acupuncture and Homeopathy: Bioenergetic Brothers
Acupuncture and homeopathy share an important healing principle: bioenergetics. "Bio" means "life," so bioenergetics is literally "life energy."
Old TCM Sayings: Treat the Front to Treat the Back
Chinese medicine college was, and always will be, a memorable time. It was a time of massive personal and professional growth.
Cell Health (Part 2)
Dr. Barsten, your book is about restoring "cell vitality." Can you briefly define the term? Cell vitality is more than the mere absence of symptoms or pathology, but optimum structural, physiological and energetic health.
The Conscious Evolution of Healing, Part 2
The idea of transmission is very important in the Chinese medical classics. According to author Claude Larre, the ancient Chinese were highly interested in the connection between things. Nothing was looked at as an isolated entity.
It might have been a miserable start to the day in the heart of downtown San Diego. A heavy rain had soaked the large homeless population congregating near the intersection of Third Avenue and Ash Street as they waited for a free breakfast to be served at the First Lutheran Church on the corner.
June, 2004, Vol. 04, Issue 06
The Courage to Go for It
By Cary Bayer
Vince Lombardi, who coached the Green Bay Packers to victories in the first two Super Bowls, was not just a taskmaster obsessed with winning; he was also a coach committed to having players give their all and not give up.It's fundamental to the yang world of football as much as to the yin world of massage. Mary Pickford, the movie star who co-founded United Artists with Charlie Chaplin and Douglas Fairbanks, wrote: "If you have made mistakes...there is always another chance for you...you may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call 'failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down."
It's not the falling down, but the staying down. This is precisely where so many LMTs get confused. They have dreams of developing their massage businesses in a particular way, but their fears of doing what is necessary to realize their dreams stop them. They fear that if they go for what they really want - like creating a well-known and successful practice, for example - they might fail. They might like to do chair massage in corporations or incorporate more exotic massage modalities, like Thai or Lomi Lomi, but are afraid to approach corporate executives or worry that such techniques might cause more conservative clients to think less favorably of them. They think that failing in and of itself is something terrible. (In baseball, the best players - Willie Mays, for example - make it to the Hall of Fame even if they fail 70 percent of the time!) The truth is, you fail if you don't try.
Future hockey Hall-of-Famer Wayne Gretzky, who scored more goals than anyone else, said, "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." Imagine what would happen if you started to take some new "shots," like going after more affiliations with chiropractors, spas or physical therapists; studying new massage techniques; or going after more clients by marketing yourself in a big way.
I coach my massage therapist clients that success results from living life with gusto. Every time you go after what you really want, you win. That's because going after what you really want involves unfolding your inner being and requires overcoming fear and resistance - and that's a huge win. If your actions don't meet with the results you desire, you still win for the simple reason that you went after what your heart truly desired.There are also times you win twice because sometimes, when you go after what you really want, a wonderful thing happens - you get it!
I've privately coached some three dozen massage therapists in the past couple of years and have seen how frightened they can be of feeling discomfort; at the slightest tinge of fear, they pull back and never go after their hearts' desires. Others give up after one failed attempt. I coach my clients to persevere, commit, and show the universe that they mean business. When they do, the universe shows its commitment to them and responds in a positive way - with support. Synchronicities take place, and they find themselves in the right place at the right time, meeting the right person. It could happen anywhere: in a supermarket checkout line, at the dry cleaners, at a Starbucks. They might find their next client: a corporate human resource manager to hire them to do a big chair massage program, or a chiropractor looking for a massage therapist.
Imagine how many more decades of slavery the Hebrews might have had to endure had Moses given up each time the hard-hearted Pharaoh refused to let his people go. Thomas Edison, who failed some 10,000 times in experiments to find the proper material for the filament in his light bulb, wrote: "Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up." You might be reading these words by candlelight had Edison been a quitter, and consider this: The genius inventor was actually grateful each time an experiment failed. His rationale was simple: He knew that he had one less road to go down to reach his goal. Imagine conducting your massage business with such certainty, faith, patience and fortitude.
Many massage therapists believe that if things don't come easily, it must not be what the universe wants for them. This couldn't be further from the truth. Liberation didn't come easily for the Hebrews, even with Moses working as a veritable channel for the highest power of the universe. Nirvana didn't come immediately to the Buddha either; he had his own challenges to deal with. Think of your favorite movie: doesn't the hero or heroine overcome some obstacle to realize a higher greatness? The universe often wants to see what you're made of and wants to see your commitment. Show your mettle and desire and you will receive support to handle the obstacles.
Do you stay in life's slow lane, content with the status quo, attached to your comfort zone? If you do, it might prevent you from getting into the real zone, where the universe blesses you with grace, success and greater income. "To the degree we're not living our dreams, our comfort zone has more control of us than we have over ourselves," wrote Peter McWilliams. So, which zone do you want to live in - the seductive comfort zone where your life is really about just coasting - or the liberating zone, where your actions carry a gift of grace beyond what you normally could accomplish on your own?
Beverly Sills, the great opera singer, wrote, "You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try." When you pursue your desires with passion - whether they're desires for enriching your personal life or desires for expanding your massage business - life becomes infinitely richer even if you don't succeed. Who you become in the process is much greater than who you were in your comfort zone. To taste heaven on earth, you must reach beyond your limit. Imagine running your massage business and your life the way the hero of Man of La Mancha did in that show's classic song, The Impossible Dream:
You can create a massage business that grows out of your deepest dreams. Now isn't that something worth getting up for each morning?
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