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Reader Beware: Consider the Source
The aftermath of last year's presidential elections brought a running conversation on the role played by "fake news" that was largely presented via social media.
Correcting Rib Dysfunction: Improve Patients' Pain, Posture and Breathing
As chiropractors, we tend to focus on the spine, and rightly so. Many problems our patients face can be corrected by manipulating the correct spinal level.
Treating the Lower Pelvis (Pt. 2): Midline Structures and Fascia
My previous article [October 2016 issue] outlined evaluation and treatment of pelvic issues involving the sacrotuberous ligament and the pubic symphysis. Now let's discuss two case studies that illustrate how to address additional problematic areas of the pelvis.
Gather & Grow
I recently attended a faculty seminar held by one of the acupuncture schools. There was a facilitator who led us through some very interesting experiences. The attendees were a diverse group with varying opinions.
TCM & the Caregiving Population: Treatment Considerations & Our Vital Role
Informal caregiving is increasingly a reality for many Americans who find themselves providing unpaid care for a loved one or a family member with a long-term, terminal, or chronic illness.
VF Works / DMX Works Epilogue: Almost Two Decades Later, the Lawsuits Continue
An article in the March 8, 1999 edition of Dynamic Chiropractic examined whether then-VF Works / Nu-Best Franchising was selling its franchises illegally to doctors of chiropractic.
Advancing the "Whole Organ" Spine Model
Historically, the human spine has been organized by body region utilizing specific anatomical landmarks and transition zones.
ICA Goes on the Vaccine Offensive
Have you watched the vaccination documentary, "Vaxxed: From Cover-Up to Catastrophe," by Andrew Wakefield MD, director, and Del Bigtree, producer? This is the documentary Robert DeNiro was pressured to remove from his Tribeca Film Festival.
News in Brief
The American Association of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine (AAAOM) board members recently met with the Korean Customs Service, which is similar to the FDA, to discuss herbal safety and importation issues.
Spiritual Initiation: Opening Your Higher Healing Abilities
People drawn to the field of acupuncture and Oriental Medicine tend to be those who march to the beat of a different drummer.
Helping Patients With Parkinson's Disease
Parkinson's disease (PD), a long-term degenerative disorder of the central nervous system that mainly affects motor function, has a slow onset over time.
Paperwork Done Wrong, Done Right
I was visiting a doctor's office recently and a member of his staff brought a stack of forms to his private office and laid them on the doctor's desk. She informed him he needed to complete the forms for patients and a few third parties.
Waist Circumference: A Conversation Starter
New estimates suggest more than two-thirds of Americans are either overweight or obese. The medical significance of this statistic is astounding.
The Acupuncture Channel System (Part 2)
The primary channels (main channels) are introduced in chapter 10 of the Ling Shu, these channels are referenced in many chapters throughout the Su Wen and the Ling Shu. The primary channels have become the main channel system used in TCM.
A Brief History of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine Doctoral Programs
A doctorate in acupuncture and Oriental medicine has been a goal of the profession since its beginnings in the late 1970s. At that time, however, the maturity of the educational institutions and the regulatory environment made it a goal with only a distant completion date.
Near-Infrared Therapy for Diabetic Neuropathy
The pain experienced by people with diabetes is a symptom of diabetic neuropathy. The impact on quality of life is significant. Pain makes walking difficult, sleep troublesome, and eventually contributes to a decrease in social interaction.
Getting Unstuck: Healing From Trauma With TCM, Qigong & Movement
We all come into this world vulnerable, with seeds to grow into our strength. Some of us — through a combination of good fortune (i.e., family and culture we are born into, constitutional inheritance, or ability to learn) grow with minimal interruption from traumatic injuries and experiences.
Latest Cassidy Study on Stroke Risk Published
The latest study to investigate whether a unique association between chiropractic manipulation and risk of cervical artery dissection / stroke exists has yielded similar encouraging findings, with the authors noting "no excess risk of carotid artery stroke after chiropractic care" and no significant risk difference between patients receiving care from a DC or a primary care medical provider.
The Large Intestine Official
The large intestine (AKA colon) is the great eliminator, or as J.R. Worsley called it, "The Drainer of the Dregs." Dregs are defined as the remnants of liquid with its sediment left in a container, or the basest, least valuable portion of anything.
AOM Residency at NUNM
Imagine you're a recent acupuncture graduate, worried about making enough income as you forge your new career and seek more in-depth training in a particular treatment style.
House Calls With Dad
My father was a chiropractor and he did house calls. On Wednesday nights, while my mother attended the weekly women's meeting at the Odd Fellows and Rebekahs hall in our small town, dad loaded up the portable adjusting table, fired up the Pontiac and drove off to treat a few patients in their homes. I went with him.
4 Things Every DC Should Know About Levels of Care & Prevention
As health practitioners, we help people with their health problems and assist them with health promotion and disease prevention.
Chiropractic in Texas Is Under Attack
The profession of chiropractic faces an unprecedented challenge in Texas, an attack that is more aggressive, sustained and dangerous than anything previously seen. The medical lobby has launched a coordinated, multi-front assault.
July, 2003, Vol. 03, Issue 07
What Did You Say?
By Perry Isenberg
Have you ever been in a conversation and felt your message didn't get across the way you wanted it to? Did it come across the wrong way? If so, you may want to see if you are sending mixed signals.
The ability to communicate can be one of the most difficult skills to acquire.The ability to communicate touches every aspect of our lives and is something we most often take for granted. There are thousands of books, tapes and educators that focus on communication skills, yet few of us take the skill seriously. (I admit I am not very good at communicating, but I am working on it!)
This article, compiled from various articles I have read on the topic, will offer suggestions on improving communication. I hope you find this information useful.
Communication experts say that words in a conversation account for only a small percentage of how people perceive you; the rest is what you don't say, including facial expressions, body language and tone of voice. Many people think that if they know what to say, they have achieved the hard part. However, in reality, knowing what to leave out delivers a clear message, supported by appropriate body language. Clear communication involves conveying your message in "short and sweet" language to avoid overload. Skilled communicators get to the point quickly by presenting " just the facts," without the fluff.
Perception is everything; what one person says may not be what another person hears. Personal beliefs may cloud what we hear and how we communicate. Being a good listener and communicator takes practice. Communication is an exchange and can become difficult if we are not skilled, or let ourselves get caught up in emotions and judgments. Some people may think they are good listeners, but, in reality, people may only hear half of what you are saying. Good communicators are good listeners; good listeners ask the right questions; The result is clear conversation. I try to avoid bad conversation habits, such as getting off the subject, confusing the listener with disjointed conversation or talking too fast.
A person who is upset might begin taking his or her anger out on me. When this happens, I try not to take it personally and have a negative reaction. Instead, I find out why the person is upset and the steps we can take to correct the situation. Most of the time, I let people "talk themselves out." They can usually communicate calmly after that. I then focus on some pertinent information so that I can recap and respond to their complaint. I might share a similar personal experience; however, I won't give direct advice. Rather, I might make gentle suggestions, especially if I think it will help the person see another perspective. I might say something like: "This helped me when I did so and so," instead of saying, "You need to do such and such." The tip here is to find common ground and rationale to keep the communication open and flowing.
When I listen, I keep a positive and open mind, and try to reserve judgment, even if I don't agree with the person's point of view. If I am not sure of his or her position, I will ask questions and repeat some points of the conversation. This tells the person that I listened, which helps diffuse the situation and adds perspective for our mutual benefit.
Of course, not all exchanges of communication are that tenuous. However If you keep a positive and open mind, do not take things personally, and stay free of judgment, you can ask the right questions to get to the real issue, even in the toughest situations. Respond only to the facts, not emotions; your body language needs to support your words.
Effective communication is an exchange and an art that needs to be practiced. Remember, clear, positive communication will get a clear, positive response for an informative beneficial conversation.
In the meantime, be healthy, be good and stay focused and motivated.
Click here for previous articles by Perry Isenberg.
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