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Advice for Young Doctors
When I began practice, I was just shy of my 25th birthday. I was young and I looked it. I had been told this would be a problem when starting a practice – and it was. Older patients often paused when they entered for care.
Resolving Medial Arch Suspicions: The Navicular Drop Test
Healthy feet have three distinct arches: medial longitudinal, lateral longitudinal and anterior transverse.
Spotlight on Acupuncture Research at IRCIMH
Acupuncture and Traditional Chinese Medicine were well-represented at the International Research Congress on Integrative Medicine and Health (IRCIMH)- 2014 which took place in Miami from May 13–16.
Looking Back: Abstracts From Chiropractic History
D.D. Palmer's Technique for the Posterior Apical Prominence; An Early Attempt to Achieve Consensus on Subluxation; Chiropractic Subject Headings: Past, Present and Future; Mabel Palmer: A History of Chiropractic That Almost Wasn't.
The Gluteal-Knee Connection
The underlying causes of knee pain and dysfunction are rarely isolated to the knee. The knee is a relatively stable joint with limited intrinsic ability to adapt to aberrant motion.
Deciphering The New CMS 1500 Claim Form
Q: I am confused on using the new 1500 form, particularly Block 14 and Block 15. What is required and how do I properly fill these out? And do I actually have to use this new form or may I continue using the old version?
Offline Marketing Techniques: Opportunities to Help Grow Your Business
In a world becoming increasingly dominated by connected devices, when we think of marketing, we often think of online and social media marketing. Considerable attention is given to Facebook and Twitter, as well as CPC [cost-per-click] advertising.
Talking to Skeptical MDs: "Just the Facts, Ma'am"
The first lesson in public speaking is to know your audience. This is particularly applicable when talking to skeptical medical doctors about chiropractic. You have to understand where they are coming from and speak the language they understand.
Getting Athletes Back in the Game: Low-Level Laser Therapy for Sports Injuries
Sports injury rehabilitation is all about getting back in the game quickly and with optimal health. A relatively new tool for the treatment of sports injuries is finding global success, and it is doing so in a fast, efficient way.
Best Practices for Website Success
If one asked 10 years ago whether a website was relevant I was the first to suggest no. Yet as the world moves increasingly towards electronic information there is a dire need to have a website for your practice. Your website is actually your electronic calling card.
Healing With Simple, Healthy Food
When it comes to your health, there is no better way to take control and create positive outcomes than by focusing on diet and lifestyle. As chiropractors, you know the power that regular self-care has for your patients.
The Acupuncture Success Express
Time is passing very quickly these days. We are atoms half the way through the year of the horse. You could call it "horse racing season" for this profession. Perhaps it is time for reinvention during this time.
Looking For Answers In Many Places
I am sure we have all heard the old adage: "When the only tool in your toolbox is a hammer, everything starts to look like a nail."
The Kidney Official
The Kidney is known as the Official Who Controls the Waterways. In Western medical terms, a major function of the Kidneys is to filter the blood. Every day, a person's kidneys process about 200 liters of blood to sift out about two liters of waste and excess water.
Not Another Typical Drug Company Lawsuit
It's becoming more common to see drug manufacturers negotiate "false claims" settlements for millions and billions of dollars.1-2 Most of these settlements have to do with violations in the marketing of the drugs they produce and sell.
Healing With Hope
Ella is a Gulf War veteran and a survivor of military sexual trauma. Like hundreds of veterans, Ella was on 11 different medications for depression, anxiety, insomnia, irritable bowel syndrome and chronic pain.
Medical Qigong for the Heart: Part II
Chinese Medicine is rich in commentary regarding the emotions and how they affect our qi.
Post-Concussion Patient Care: Relevance of the Chiropractic Adjustment
There is a widespread understanding within the profession of the general guidelines for care of the concussion patient. These include guidelines for physical and cognitive rest, return to normal activities and so forth.
Hazards in the Environment Making Your Patients Sick
Working both separately and together, Western and Chinese medicine have many successes in the treatment of the myriad diseases that afflict human beings in modern times.
F4CP: New Campaign to Promote Chiropractic as a Career
The F4CP has announced a "targeted cooperative campaign" that will engage doctors of chiropractic and chiropractic students, as well as chiropractic colleges, chiropractic media, state associations and vendors, to encourage DCs to recommend a chiropractic career to patients, family and friends.
Primary Lateral Sclerosis: A Condition With a Chiropractic Connection
Primary lateral sclerosis (PLS) is a slowly progressive, adult degenerative disease of the upper motor neurons characterized by progressive spasticity or stiffness. It is a clinical diagnosis that has been avoided because it is (largely) a diagnosis of exclusion.
Super Bowl Chiropractor
With opening night of the 2014 National Football League season only a month away, what better time to talk to Dr. Jim Kurtz, team chiropractor for the defending Super Bowl champion Seattle Seahawks?
August, 2001, Vol. 01, Issue 08
How to Say "No," Continued...
By Ruth Werner, LMP, NCTMB, Massage Therapy Foundation President
I am absolutely overwhelmed with the volume and heartfelt quality of your replies to my last challenge ("How do you say 'No' when your client says 'Yes'?").I received dozens of letters from all over the country, from people with extraordinary stories to tell. I was so excited to share with you the wonderful ideas and experiences people have sent me. And then my hard drive melted. I was able to salvage some things, but not, alas, any of my e-mail. It disappeared into the ether. It is gone, gone, gone.
I quickly (well, as quickly as I could think of it) sent a letter to Massage Today, asking if they could put a squib in the July issue to request that my respondents resend their wonderful letters --but of course, I missed the deadline.
So, wonderful letter-writers, if you still have copies of the letters you sent me, could you please send them again? I promise I'll be conscientious and save them not only in an e-mail file, but also in a place where they can be restored if necessary.
In the meantime, I did have a few letters that I have been able to save. It's hard to choose what topic to address, since so many rich ones came up, including...
This month, I decided to try to address the most common theme I heard. Here's an excerpt from a registered massage therapist in Texas:
I respond to these clients by educating them on the effects of a deep tissue massage on a body that has not been prepared for it (extreme soreness, nausea, headaches, flu like symptoms, and the process of how the body eliminates metabolic wastes and toxins from the body, etc.). I tell them that this is not the type of massage they will receive from me, as it is not in the best interest of their body at this time. If a deep tissue massage is what they want to work towards, then we set up regular scheduled appointments to accomplish that.
I refuse to do any type of bodywork, on any client, that I feel is not in their best interest at that time. I would rather lose that client.
My advice is, the massage therapist is the professional and educated person in these situations, and the client relies on us to know what we practice and what is in their best interest. We need to act like the professional educated people that we are, and say "no" when we know it's the right thing to do for that client.
Our profession loses many potential clients due to negative experiences resulting from a therapist not saying "no" when they should have.
Among many important issues raised here is who is in charge of a session. This therapist absolutely nailed my point: in the client-therapist relationship, the therapist is the authority. We are obligated to make decisions for our clients' best interest, even when it's not what they think they want. This writer went on to describe another situation in which massage therapist complied with a client's wishes for a deep tissue massage, against better judgment. The client was injured, she required extensive physical therapy to recover, and she will never seek massage again. How much damage is done to our profession when this happens?
Many writers had wonderful insights about how to frame difficult conversations with clients. Based on these and my own experiences with clients, students, and active listening skills, here are some basic guidelines that are pretty universally applicable:
This is a simple format for difficult conversations that can be applied to a wide variety of problems, from health concerns, to chronic lateness, to someone who has a habit of canceling appointments at the last minute. Sadly, when we're on the spot, sensible communication skills go right out of our heads. That's why it can be useful to have a simple, clear-cut formula for dealing with these difficult situations. In my next article, I'll outline some other communication guidelines that can make these relationships nurturing, fruitful experiences that can allow both therapists and clients to grow and benefit. I will also describe some of the other alarming scenarios that therapists have described to me in recent months.
Again, to those of you who wrote last time, and to any other readers who have problems they would like to see addressed, please, please, please resend your letters! Until then, good health and happiness.
Click here for previous articles by Ruth Werner, LMP, NCTMB, Massage Therapy Foundation President.
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