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F4CP Making a High-Impact Impression
The Foundation for Chiropractic Progress has released details of its 2016 strategy, certain elements of which are already in play. The strategy includes ads, posters and other resources available to all F4CP members.
Dietary Fat and Prostate Cancer: An Important Update
K.M. Di Sebastiano and M. Mourtzakis published a review paper examining the role of dietary fat on prostate cancer development and progression late last year that does a stellar job of summarizing the available data on fat and prostate cancer.
Tailor-Made Knee Pain: The Sartorius Muscle
A patient was referred to my office after receiving treatment from various providers with no results. The patient was training for the Olympics as a marathon runner and was unable to run or walk without severe medial knee pain.
Targeting the Bad Apples in the Bunch
While everyone was focused on the conversion to ICD-10, the Office of Inspector General for Health and Human Services released a new report on chiropractic titled "CMS Should Use Targeted Tactics to Curb Questionable and Inappropriate Payments for Chiropractic Services."
Designing a Fitness Plan (Part 1)
It doesn't matter if you come to my practice for pain relief, weight loss, healthy aging or something else. The formula I talk about for each patient's fitness strategy is pretty much the same.
The Modern Application of Ancient Mei Rong
Chinese Medical Cosmetology (Mei Rong) has a well-documented and venerated history dating back to the Qin (221-206 BC) Dynasty.
Diagnose Sprain Injuries in MVA Cases With Dynamic X-Rays (Pt. 1)
Am I the only person to notice hospitals are doing a seemingly insufficient job lately in their initial radiological workup of motor vehicle accident (MVA) victims?
It's Time to Review
It is amazing to see the changes that are occurring in the acupuncture profession. Let's look at some of the news and events that have contributed to this growth and awareness.
Syncretism: Acupuncture and Public Health in Cuba
"Syncretism" is defined as a union of diverse tenets or practices. On a recent trip to Cuba designed to demonstrate the integration of Traditional Medicine and biomedicine, our group witnessed this union firsthand.
Chinese Herbs and Pulmonary Fibrosis: A Case Study
"Mary M."* recently celebrated her 90th birthday. Even the former sheriff dropped by to kiss the hand of this diminutive retired teacher, to honor the years she interpreted for him during interviews with Latinas and Latinos.
Mechanism: Experimental Approaches to Understanding Acupuncture, Part 1
The clinical benefits of acupuncture are difficult to ignore, but also can be difficult to explain to a Western audience. For nearly 50 years, relentlessly inquisitive scientists and physicians have been working toward a conceptual model to explain acupuncture.
Your Billing Questions Answered
I hear a lot of the following questions: I am afraid I may doing something illegal. I have heard I cannot have different fees for the same service.
Making Sense of an Increasingly Obvious Conclusion
Where's U.S. health care heading? Like it or not, the list of telltale signs is growing to a point that stands out to even the most myopic observer. Consider this list of facts as you look into the future of health care in the United States:
Which Way is the Energy Going? Are You Burning Yourself Out?
One of the simple methods that I use to define Yin/Yang theory to patients is to ask the question, "Which way is your energy going?"
The Concussion-Subluxation Complex
In the Aug. 1, 2014 issue of Dynamic Chiropractic, I reviewed some of the literature demonstrating the role of the chiropractic adjustment in post-concussive care.
One Size Does Not Fit All: Exercise and Nutrition According to Your Yin/Yang Body Type
There are countless new exercise and nutrition plans out there, emphasizing the latest ground-breaking research and claiming to revolutionize the way we view health.
Too Many to Remember: Tips to Revive Your Ortho / Neuro Test Skills
When I was at Palmer in the mid-1980s, we were given a set of notes in one of our diagnostic courses. The notes covered approximately 70 orthopedic and neurological tests for various regions of the body.
Footsteps of the Sages: An Apprenticeship with Dr. Kezhan Zhang
When I met Dr. Kezhen Zhang in May 2013, I was his translator and the integrity, creativity, and passion he demonstrated as a practitioner and advocate of the medicine convinced me to travel to Beijing to study with him.
Pro-Con: Swaddling for Newborns
The practice of swaddling has been used for thousands of years and was popular until the 1700s, when it was slowly abandoned by many cultures that considered it old-fashioned or barbaric.
Born to Energize the Human Spirit: Recollections of Sig Miller
Sig Miller, longtime executive director of the Association of New Jersey Chiropractors (ANJC), passed away on Sept. 17 after a long battle with cancer.
Acupuncture Rising: From Acupuncture Anesthesia to Assisted-IVF, Part 2
Acupuncture's cultural and historical roots go back to the emergence of Chinese civilization. For more than 2,000 years, acupuncture needling has been continuously practiced on the largest population in the world.
Omega-3 Fish Oil: An Underappreciated Element of Men's Health
As a clinician with many male patients -- and as a man myself -- I am all too aware of the fact that we like to convince ourselves that we are doing great, when that may be the farthest thing from the truth.
North Carolina Acupuncture Board Files Dry Needling Lawsuit
In early September, the NCALB filed a complaint against the North Carolina Board of Physical Therapy Examiners over the issue of dry needling, a form of acupuncture that uses solid needles to puncture the skin and muscle tissue to relieve pain.
August, 2001, Vol. 01, Issue 08
How to Say "No," Continued...
By Ruth Werner, LMP, NCTMB, Massage Therapy Foundation President
I am absolutely overwhelmed with the volume and heartfelt quality of your replies to my last challenge ("How do you say 'No' when your client says 'Yes'?").I received dozens of letters from all over the country, from people with extraordinary stories to tell. I was so excited to share with you the wonderful ideas and experiences people have sent me. And then my hard drive melted. I was able to salvage some things, but not, alas, any of my e-mail. It disappeared into the ether. It is gone, gone, gone.
I quickly (well, as quickly as I could think of it) sent a letter to Massage Today, asking if they could put a squib in the July issue to request that my respondents resend their wonderful letters --but of course, I missed the deadline.
So, wonderful letter-writers, if you still have copies of the letters you sent me, could you please send them again? I promise I'll be conscientious and save them not only in an e-mail file, but also in a place where they can be restored if necessary.
In the meantime, I did have a few letters that I have been able to save. It's hard to choose what topic to address, since so many rich ones came up, including...
This month, I decided to try to address the most common theme I heard. Here's an excerpt from a registered massage therapist in Texas:
I respond to these clients by educating them on the effects of a deep tissue massage on a body that has not been prepared for it (extreme soreness, nausea, headaches, flu like symptoms, and the process of how the body eliminates metabolic wastes and toxins from the body, etc.). I tell them that this is not the type of massage they will receive from me, as it is not in the best interest of their body at this time. If a deep tissue massage is what they want to work towards, then we set up regular scheduled appointments to accomplish that.
I refuse to do any type of bodywork, on any client, that I feel is not in their best interest at that time. I would rather lose that client.
My advice is, the massage therapist is the professional and educated person in these situations, and the client relies on us to know what we practice and what is in their best interest. We need to act like the professional educated people that we are, and say "no" when we know it's the right thing to do for that client.
Our profession loses many potential clients due to negative experiences resulting from a therapist not saying "no" when they should have.
Among many important issues raised here is who is in charge of a session. This therapist absolutely nailed my point: in the client-therapist relationship, the therapist is the authority. We are obligated to make decisions for our clients' best interest, even when it's not what they think they want. This writer went on to describe another situation in which massage therapist complied with a client's wishes for a deep tissue massage, against better judgment. The client was injured, she required extensive physical therapy to recover, and she will never seek massage again. How much damage is done to our profession when this happens?
Many writers had wonderful insights about how to frame difficult conversations with clients. Based on these and my own experiences with clients, students, and active listening skills, here are some basic guidelines that are pretty universally applicable:
This is a simple format for difficult conversations that can be applied to a wide variety of problems, from health concerns, to chronic lateness, to someone who has a habit of canceling appointments at the last minute. Sadly, when we're on the spot, sensible communication skills go right out of our heads. That's why it can be useful to have a simple, clear-cut formula for dealing with these difficult situations. In my next article, I'll outline some other communication guidelines that can make these relationships nurturing, fruitful experiences that can allow both therapists and clients to grow and benefit. I will also describe some of the other alarming scenarios that therapists have described to me in recent months.
Again, to those of you who wrote last time, and to any other readers who have problems they would like to see addressed, please, please, please resend your letters! Until then, good health and happiness.
Click here for previous articles by Ruth Werner, LMP, NCTMB, Massage Therapy Foundation President.
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