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Don't Turn a 2 Into a 10
The Wong-Baker FACES Pain Rating Scale1 is so useful because it can be used by almost anyone. Patients can use the numbers associated with the faces depicted on the scale or select the face that demonstrates their current level of pain from 0-10.
A Glimpse Into China's Top Brain Hospital
The sounds of the city pass through the open window are overwhelming the microphone - car horns, construction machinery - and then there's the family at the adjacent bed talking loudly on cell phones, yet you can still hear the faint beep of our patients monitoring equipment.
MPA Media Wins 7 Publishing Awards
MPA Media, publisher of Dynamic Chiropractic and DC Practice Insights, among other titles, has been recognized for editorial and design excellence with an unprecedented seven publishing awards by the American Society of Business Publication Editors (ASBPE), the nation's largest organization for business-to-business publications.
CCE Finally Takes a "Baby Step" Toward Reform
During a 16-month period from October 2010 to February 2012, I devoted four separate columns to the heavy-handed attempt by the Council on Chiropractic Education to radically change the chiropractic profession through the accreditation process.
MPA Media Wins Seven Publishing Awards
MPA Media, publisher of Acupuncture Today, among other titles, has been recognized for editorial and design excellence with an unprecendented seven publishing awards by the ASBPE, the nation's largest organization for business-to-business publications.
Healing Community Trauma in Israel and Palestine
It's the beginning of August and Israel and Hamas have just agreed to a 72-hour ceasefire after a month of brutal fighting. In the last four weeks, 1,830 Palestinians and 67 Israelis have been killed.
The Science Behind Happiness
Are you happy right now? Whether yes or no, there are a myriad of reasons why you feel that way. A whole academic discipline has developed to find out what causes or obstructs happiness, and how to amplify it.
9 Common Causes of Thyroid Imbalance and How You Can Help
How you sleep, how easily you wake up, and how much energy and stamina you have during the day are directly related to levels of the thyroid hormones.
Thoughts to Live By
When speaking to your patients about their health make sure to ponder the following points and have them assess if they are making themselves even more sick by the thoughts they have about life. Are these some of the traits and thoughts that your patients might have?
Waking Up the Gluteus Maximus
In previous articles in this series, we expounded on the importance of the gluteus maximus (GM) in athletic performance and protecting the knee from injury. We also know there is a link between iliotibial band syndrome and GM weakness.
History of Animal Acupuncture: Part II
In Part I of this article, I had gone back to 1969 and tried to describe the atmosphere and events of that year that engulfed many of the younger generation, some who were all the core members of the National Acupuncture Association.
The Truth About Herbs
I appreciate the effort and research put into the article written in the June issue of Acupuncture Today regarding pesticides and Chinese herbs.
A Vibrating Capsule for Constipation? Relevance to Your Chiropractic Practice
The relationship between gastrointestinal (GI) complaints and back pain is not typically written about or discussed.
A Healthy Dose of Failure is Vital to Your Success
As an acupuncturist I tend to see people after they have already suffered for years and "tried everything." They are so desperate for some relief that they want to know everything about how to get better, right now.
When Big Pharma Meets Chinese Medicine
Earlier this year, Bayer made a media splash with their decision to buy the Dihon Pharmaceutical Group Co., a Chinese TCM manufacturer.
Pain Underfoot: Metatarsalgia
Foot pain can interfere significantly with normal activities and severely limit participation in sports. Metatarsalgia is foot pain involving the metatarsal bones in the forefoot – the complaint of pain on the bottom of the ball of the foot.
Chiropractic Research in Review
Chiropractic Treatment of Lateral Epicondylitis; Cost / Benefit Analysis: Different Doses of SMT for Low Back Pain; Imaging for Occult Rib and Costal Cartilage Fractures; Treating Neck Pain: Thoracic Thrust Manipulation vs. Non-Thrust Mobilization.
News in Brief
National Chiropractic Health Month: Be Proactive; Collegiate Roundup: Academic Appointments at Parker, Logan.
Get Ready For AOM Day
This year, AOM Day 2014 falls on Friday, (October 24th). This is a great opportunity to make your AOM Day celebration or event even bigger by extending it throughout the weekend!
Why Young People Need Chiropractic Now More Than Ever
According to a recent study published in BMC Musculoskeletal Disorders, "It is now widely acknowledged that neck pain (NP), mid back pain (MBP), and low back pain (LBP) (spinal pain) start early in life and that the lifetime prevalence increases rapidly during adolescence to reach adult levels at the age of 18."
August, 2001, Vol. 01, Issue 08
How to Say "No," Continued...
By Ruth Werner, LMP, NCTMB, Massage Therapy Foundation President
I am absolutely overwhelmed with the volume and heartfelt quality of your replies to my last challenge ("How do you say 'No' when your client says 'Yes'?").I received dozens of letters from all over the country, from people with extraordinary stories to tell. I was so excited to share with you the wonderful ideas and experiences people have sent me. And then my hard drive melted. I was able to salvage some things, but not, alas, any of my e-mail. It disappeared into the ether. It is gone, gone, gone.
I quickly (well, as quickly as I could think of it) sent a letter to Massage Today, asking if they could put a squib in the July issue to request that my respondents resend their wonderful letters --but of course, I missed the deadline.
So, wonderful letter-writers, if you still have copies of the letters you sent me, could you please send them again? I promise I'll be conscientious and save them not only in an e-mail file, but also in a place where they can be restored if necessary.
In the meantime, I did have a few letters that I have been able to save. It's hard to choose what topic to address, since so many rich ones came up, including...
This month, I decided to try to address the most common theme I heard. Here's an excerpt from a registered massage therapist in Texas:
I respond to these clients by educating them on the effects of a deep tissue massage on a body that has not been prepared for it (extreme soreness, nausea, headaches, flu like symptoms, and the process of how the body eliminates metabolic wastes and toxins from the body, etc.). I tell them that this is not the type of massage they will receive from me, as it is not in the best interest of their body at this time. If a deep tissue massage is what they want to work towards, then we set up regular scheduled appointments to accomplish that.
I refuse to do any type of bodywork, on any client, that I feel is not in their best interest at that time. I would rather lose that client.
My advice is, the massage therapist is the professional and educated person in these situations, and the client relies on us to know what we practice and what is in their best interest. We need to act like the professional educated people that we are, and say "no" when we know it's the right thing to do for that client.
Our profession loses many potential clients due to negative experiences resulting from a therapist not saying "no" when they should have.
Among many important issues raised here is who is in charge of a session. This therapist absolutely nailed my point: in the client-therapist relationship, the therapist is the authority. We are obligated to make decisions for our clients' best interest, even when it's not what they think they want. This writer went on to describe another situation in which massage therapist complied with a client's wishes for a deep tissue massage, against better judgment. The client was injured, she required extensive physical therapy to recover, and she will never seek massage again. How much damage is done to our profession when this happens?
Many writers had wonderful insights about how to frame difficult conversations with clients. Based on these and my own experiences with clients, students, and active listening skills, here are some basic guidelines that are pretty universally applicable:
This is a simple format for difficult conversations that can be applied to a wide variety of problems, from health concerns, to chronic lateness, to someone who has a habit of canceling appointments at the last minute. Sadly, when we're on the spot, sensible communication skills go right out of our heads. That's why it can be useful to have a simple, clear-cut formula for dealing with these difficult situations. In my next article, I'll outline some other communication guidelines that can make these relationships nurturing, fruitful experiences that can allow both therapists and clients to grow and benefit. I will also describe some of the other alarming scenarios that therapists have described to me in recent months.
Again, to those of you who wrote last time, and to any other readers who have problems they would like to see addressed, please, please, please resend your letters! Until then, good health and happiness.
Click here for previous articles by Ruth Werner, LMP, NCTMB, Massage Therapy Foundation President.
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